Guys, Is this man interested in me?

[Anonymous]

Hi all!

My former boss keeps looking at my Whats app stories even though we have worked together for only 2 weeks (then he left the company to become ceo of another company) and it’s been 5 months already and he watches every single what’s app stories and most of the time he’s the first one to see them. I just don’t understand the behaviour. He is a grown up, married man. We are not working together anymore. Is it the way he tries to keep the contact just in case for the future or he finds me interesting?

[DaveJord]

Well if he is not messaging you or commenting then I would say you shouldn't worry about it. I really do not know how many people really use What's App any more. But sounds like you might be over acting or making something out of nothing. Sure he might just be maintaining contact, or maybe he does find you interesting, but you should not assume too much, read more into it then it merits, or let it bother you. If it bother you that much then just remove him from it.

In the end you can't say he is really doing anything inappropriate or wrong.

[Asker]

Well he commented twice and I wasn’t active in responding, I just responded with emojis and after that he continues watching every single stories

[spartan55]

Why does it matter if he is married? If it bothers you, then block him. But we both know it doesn't bother you. If you think looking at your 'stories' means anything then you are delusional.

[spartan55]

*since he is married?

[Asker]

Actually you’re right it doesn’t bother me in fact I even started to post more stories since he’s looking at them, I guess, it just fuels my ego somehow.

[Asker]

The other thing is that I’m not planning anything with the married man of course, but it always feel good to know whether somebody is interested in me or feel attracted to me.

[Asker]

I guess, that’s why I asked the question at first place just to get validation whether this person finds me interesting. I know sounds pathetic but it’s as it’s

[spartan55]

I don't consider validation from a married person as genuine at all. In fact I would call it 'tainted' or 'dirty' because it's coming from someone being dishonest in their marriage, and are only interested in sex anyway. If that type of validation brings you up I think you have a serious lack of self esteem.

[spartan55]

I appreciate your honesty. Variants of this question get posted often and this is the first real response I've received.

[Asker]

Thank you for your honest opinion as well! And you’re right, I have low self esteem

[spartan55]

Married men and social media strokes are empty ego boosts...

[Luggit]

Let him look and read all he wants, nothing wrong with that. It's when he wants to start dating you while he's married, then there's a whole lot of wrong with that!

[DavidRaul]

Yes maybe he finds you interesting. Maybe he uses whatsapp too much. It could be anything tbh. Dont worry about. If he texts you out of the blue , thats another problem to worry about.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, there is interest of some sort, probably just sex

[BraveRiver]

I look at the stories people post because it kills time. Has nothing to do with who posts them or my feelings for them.

[Gintoki123]

Look just because they do this doesn't mean they like you alright he is just looking at your status dude, just like he would look at anyone else's, just don't think much about it, I know how it can feel trust me on that.

[driven159]

it should not matter if he is married