I’m not a man, so I hope you don’t mind my opinion, but I think at this point the writing is on the wall. This man won’t commit because he doesn’t want to, and it’s made plainly clear by the opportunities he’s gotten to change his mind in all this time and does not. Already you messed up by changing yourself for someone else, because for the right person, there wouldn’t be changes necessary and he’d love you as you are. But that’s in the past, and in the present, all of your sacrifices and patience has not and is not paying off. As far as him repeatedly coming back, he does it because you let him back in and there’s nothing endearing or romantic about that dynamic. Just because there’s no traces of a woman at his house doesn’t mean there isn’t one in the picture, he’s just not committing. That alone gets tired, and I’m sure those women get fed up, leave him and then he circles back to you as a safety net for his loneliness. I understand you’ve invested a lot into him and have hopes for the future, you want your efforts to pay off, and I get that you really want him. But he’s just not the one, you can’t make him the one and you shouldn’t have to turn yourself inside out to try and appeal to him. You aren’t desperate and he’s just not worth it.
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Daaang.. i read all of it til finished and the last line is only looking for guys opinion lol fine 😂
he isn't gonna commit he just wants no strings attached, forget him and move on
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