Is it bad to tell a guy in a new long distant relationship with you “do what you want, just don’t make me look stupid” ?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

meaning whilst we are 9 hours apart and have never met in the flesh he’s free to do what he wants so long as he isn’t humiliating me or degrading me or making me look like I’m being cheated on

[Honesttguy]

So as long as he does it in hidden private place and no one comes out its okey? Hm alright just bj will do not gonna post it online to make u look stupid. No worries.

[silkjames]

I hope you explain it to him better than that too him if u only said these words it sounds like... aslong as he don't get caught cheating it's fair game lol 😂😂 BUT IM GROWN I understand what u meant! Just break it down too him if u like him:)!

[spartan55]

That's a very odd thing to say, especially to someone you essentially don't know.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

No I mean if I’m in the relationship with him that’s new and long distant meaning I’ve known him virtually for a long time (16 months) but the relationship is new

[spartan55]

Doesn't change my answer one bit.

[spartan55]

What are you categorizing as "making you look stupid, or degrading me?"

[BoobMan]

Wait, so you've never been in the same place as this guy? Why start dating someone 9 hours away?

[OnyxianGhostsLove]

I am not sure that really makes a difference?
Why would it?

could you answer some of my questions?

[SignedAutographs]

Why people do LDR's, I do not know