There are times I had my eyes wonder and I have lecherous thoughts. I actually have twice in my life had a random sexual encounters with two attractive women who didn’t even ask my name. They initiated and didn’t care about conversation.
It was thrilling in the moment but I didn’t also feel great about it later I actually tried to slow things down but it felt like it was killing the rush.
I have never did the opposite. I’ve had one night stands where I made the moves first but I did spend some time getting to know the girl first. It’s actually very dangerous nowadays (false allegations) for a man to move that fast. I can’t and won’t do it.
But there is a stereotype that ALL men look at women as “objects” that is grossly overrated. Some definitely do. But I believe to a certain extent most guys do want at least minimal discussion before jumping in.
But really do women still believe that most men think this way? At best only 20% of them would act like this. Not 80%.
It was thrilling in the moment but I didn’t also feel great about it later I actually tried to slow things down but it felt like it was killing the rush.
I have never did the opposite. I’ve had one night stands where I made the moves first but I did spend some time getting to know the girl first. It’s actually very dangerous nowadays (false allegations) for a man to move that fast. I can’t and won’t do it.
But there is a stereotype that ALL men look at women as “objects” that is grossly overrated. Some definitely do. But I believe to a certain extent most guys do want at least minimal discussion before jumping in.
But really do women still believe that most men think this way? At best only 20% of them would act like this. Not 80%.
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