What should I tell him when he asks if he can write to me sometimes because he likes to talk to me?

[Anonymous]

I'm married. I don't want to hurt my male friend and make him hope in love. I know he finds me attractive. I want to keep boundaries.

[TheLoneTerran]

I don't want to sound mean or cold, but you have to respect the boundaries you've already established. If that meant only occasional messaging, then it should probably stay that way. Also, if you've made it clear that nothing will ever happen between you as you are already married, I think you'll know what choice to make if he pushes that boundary at some point or respects it consistently.

[random_girl95]

Maybe you could him just that. Honestly is often the best reply and people tend to be more understanding.