Why are these guys talking about me?

[Anonymous]

This group of late twenties early thirties men keep observing, talking about me at my office. I don't know why. It makes me uncomfortable. I smiled at them once to be polite. Then one of the guys tried to make friends with me and I was polite but quietly reduced contact. Now everytime I come around they giggle and smile and punch each other. Lately it has turned into a weird quietness while I walk by their table at lunch. I've also heard them discuss the things I do long after I've done them. Like signing out a book. Trying to finish a quiz.
It's making me uncomfortable and self conscious and I have a lot of anxiety. Why won't they stop observing and discussing my actions?

[ArtemisSilver]

Obviously one or more of them find you attractive. What a mystery. 😅

[Asker]

How do I get them to stop. It's been months and shows no sign of stopping

[ArtemisSilver]

Have you tried asking them to behave professionally in your presence? Probably all you need to do.

[Asker]

No that'll make it worse

[ArtemisSilver]

Ah well instead of being a reasonable person and just asking them to stop go to HR and have them fired then I guess. 👍

[Anonymous]

Maybe their discussing buttermilk biscuit recipes. I don’t know much about men, or public settings.

[Anonymous]

Another woman having an issue with a man at work.

Just go to HR.

If I say anything else you’ll just block me.

Good luck.

[Asker]

Who shit in your cereal

[Anonymous]

A gang of pussies