Did I figure out the real reason this older coworker says comments to me then quickly walks away and why he responds to my small talk with one word?

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He used to hit on me.

Ok so guys online told me he acts this way now cause he's infatuated. Now i think they meant that he's still imagining having sex with my body right? And if so I don't know why cuz idont reveal my body. Unless he just has a fetish for very skinny girls and we are kinda rare i guess?

But i figured out why he does it and its not cuz he's in love or nervous because i mean anything to him. I think its cause im invisible. Sure he said sweet nothings to me compliments that i fell for.. doesn't mean anything cause to him it was just silly words. He wanted me emotionally attached but he himself never was not intended ti attach to me. Im actually invisible. I am not a human with worth beyond the shape outline or weight of my body or maybe how my face is arranged if some guys are into faces. Whether i responded to his comments made no difference to him thats why he walks away before i get the chance to and thats why he's not listening to what i say even when i try to talk and connect emotionally. he's never trying o sit down one on one and have a emotionally bonding conversation which basically means paying attention to me and face and body language.

No its all about saying something quick and walking away or if i say something he just responds like he doesn't care he's just answering a question on a computer.

Yeah thats what i am a computer robot invisible person.
Thanks for makimg me feel like that
Did I figure out the real reason this older coworker says comments to me then quickly walks away and why he responds to my small talk with one word?
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