Is it likely that my former crush hates me?

[Angieg03]

I had a crush on a guy. The crush was something serious. I approached him twice and he rejected me both times. He was such an asshole to me but I was so blinded by his youth and good looks that I could not see his assholish ways even though everyone else did. I can't believe how stupid I was to not see how he was treating me. I wanted him and only him. Anyhow I saw him the other day just in passing after a whole year. I thought I would never see him again. He didn't look quiet as handsome. I questioned myself as to what did I saw in this jerk. It was like blinders had been lifted off my eyes. Do you think this dude hates me for crushing on him and approaching him more than once? I wasn't harassing him. I approached him about several months later after the initial rejection. I have never been so spellbound by a man in my whole life. Do you think he hates me for lusting after him the way I did?

[spartan55]

This doesn't even make sense... why would he hate you?

[molonski2]

Its a very unhealthy obsession and he is not remotely suitable for you , yes of course your unwanted advances have already been dealt with , hate may be a strong word but in essence you are becoming incredibly annoying to him , just leave the guy alone , he has zero interest in you.

And you are in an incorrect age bracket , he doesn't need a mother figure.

[Billlewis]

I think it's quite likely that any guy who has dated you, and subsequently lost his opportunity to be with one of the most attractive women imaginable would hate himself most of all, for screwing up.