Guys, Guys please read and Help me?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to a guy for about 5 months, we had many ups and downs due to the fact that he was a sort of a fuckboy. I really liked him I was in love with him so I began to act crazy at one point such as telling him how much I loved him in paragraphs, one time he ignored me and I called him 100 times… just because I was in love and I was sad and suffering a lot. He told me to leave him alone so I began to leave him alone. Although I still have feelings I hide them and deny them as much as possible but now he doesn’t come around me as often anymore and his friend tells me he hates me and he doesn’t want to know about me or he doesn’t like when my name is brought up, he doesn’t like to speak about me or the situation at all… what could this be? Does he actually hate me? Should I give it more time, I was thinking about texting him soon again because I still love him and when he is around me he is very nice to me but other than that we do not text or talk on the phone at all anymore

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[wa1t1ngFuture]

according to my theory , found that a man will be able to melt even though he hates a woman after he sees the many struggles you put in (as long as you are not ugly, if you are not beautiful it's okay , but as long as you are not ugly)

as long as women are not fat men will think women are not ugly

[wa1t1ngFuture]

if he has ever been interested in you it means that you are not ugly

[spartan55]

Okay, you don't need three posts asking the same question pink anon.

[ShadowMonarch]

Unfortunately, these kind of guys talk to you until they get a better "option" and awlays think about sex.. it's not worth making him fall for you... you're just devaluing what you have to offer...

[Asker]

Thank you for your advice I appreciate it, makes me feel a little better. However I was really worried and down because I don’t want to feel like anybody hates me, and I don’t know if it’s true what his friends are saying that the guy says he wants nothing to do with me or about me and that he doesn’t like for myself to be brought up… like if it te true I don’t know what that means… does he actually hate me possibly I’m not sure what it means when a guy acts like that

[ShadowMonarch]

Here's the thing,
Even if you became the most beautiful person in the world or a huge success, Haters are always there... I'll say "don't care about him or his friends" and I know it'll be a hard task because ignoring someone's hatred is a hard thing to do, even for me, but one day you'll have to do it, so why don't you do it now?

[Asker]

You’re right, the correct thing to do is to ignore it but it’s very hard to do so when there’s feelings still there :((( I still love him… I don’t know what it is but I feel love it’s like I care more about him that I care about myself… and at the end of the day I don’t really know if he hates me or not he has never said it himself it’s always his friend who tells me which I don’t know if it could be messing around… but his friend did say that the guy does not want to know about me and does not like when he’s around and I am brought up… why would this be? Is this because of hate? As a guy?

[ShadowMonarch]

Why are you so tensed about him hating you?

[Asker]

Because i love him and I don’t want someone I love to hate me it hurts everyday

[ShadowMonarch]

Well... answer to that is
Move On...
As I told you earlier, he isn't a guy who wants a relationship but a toy that he can played with and after that throw it in the bin...

[Iron_Man]

Move on