Guys, your opinion please?

[Anonymous]

Sooooo… I have liked this guy for 5 months and I don’t have the guts to ask him out. He was away for 1 week and once he came back he has been acting weird, always asking me to go places with him, walking next to me, Called me ‘My lady’ and he is always texting me everyday and always answers my text messages. Does he like me or did he just miss me?

[chris_987]

This might be an unpopular opinion but it's true that's girls shouldn't ask out a guy. Because your gonna feel like your responsible for moving the relationship forward. It's something that a lot if people have to learn the hard way. And plus you don't want a guy the doesn't know how to show his desires to women.

[Asker]

True, But I have dated like 7 guys and I have only been asked out by 2 and Every boy I like expects the girl to ask them out cause the boys I know can’t handle the embarrassment of rejection. I have been asked out by text only tho so I rlly don’t know if that counts 🤨. In my own Opinion if the girl asks out the guy the relationship isn’t gonna last long.. if the guy asks out the girl then it’s gonna go for more then 1 month or more. I have been asked out and we dated for 2 months and 1 week. And my friend and her boyfriend are dating still and have been for 1 whole year! Love 😞

[chris_987]

Well we live in a different time now where we don't have to communicate face to face, there are more women than men in the world so girls are kinda force to be pro active if they want to have a dating life. But that still doesn't change the fact that of a girl feels like she is leading the relationship she will feel used. We're if a man is leading the relationship he will feel like he is a boss because girls want a guy who is confident tall and fun. So by default they want a man to lead.

[Anonymous]

You'll have to take the risk and ask as it could be either. You already hang out, so just ask him out for coffee or dinner sometime. If he asks "is it a date?", you can say, "would you like it to be?" ;) Good luck!

[Asker]

Thanks this was rlly helpful 😊