It's been 2 weeks since I met this guy I liked but I haven't been able to pluck up the courage to ask him out what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[nitsuj86]

Just ask him, it's not that hard. You are looking for someone on here to give you a way to find out without having to do any of the hard work.

If you have his number just text or call him and see if he wants to hang out. Find something to do, and ask if he wants to join. A movie, concert, walk in the park, etc... If he doesn't want to, says he is busy, and never suggests another time to hang out, then you have your answer.

Guys normally don't lead women on, if he sees no chance with you, even just for sex, then he most likely won't go out of his way to hang out with you. He also isn't going to be intimidated or scared off by you asking him to hang out, that's shit that women say to each other to justify them being scared to do it.

If you ask, he will know you like him. Women don't ask guys to hang out like that except when they are interested usually. Then he can decide if he likes you enough to join. If he doesn't, well that sucks but you just have to move on.

[Asker]

I know you are absolutely right I shouldn't care much if he says no. My savage friends said he had a fat girl before me so he might not be hard to get... I can not belive they said this

[nitsuj86]

Well, maybe he liked her for more than how big she is. I have been with a lot of "beautiful" women. You know what most of them have in common? They are incredibly selfish, and offer little to a man outside of sex. They have had so many people kissing their ass their whole life, they become incredibly entitled.

Guys eventually get tired of these women because it's too much work, and it's never appreciated. Would you want to be with someone that expects you to do everything for them, pay for everything, and never even says thank you, even if they are hot?

A lot of attractive people think their presence and allowing you to have sex with them is enough to sustain a relationship, because that all most people have asked of them. I am willing to bet these ladies you are friends with are single and have barely had a serious relationship if at all.

If you like the guy, go for it. Don't worry about what these friends think, because 1. You probably won't be friends with them in 10-20 years, 2. A lifelong relationship is better than a couple of shallow friends that will keep you single.

[Anonymous]

Take your time first, or maybe try to show him some subtle signs like yk, being flirty and all, and just see if he reciprocates and all, if he does then all good, maybe he is into you and you can ask him out, and if its the opposite then you know, maybe try your best to impress him, and even after that if he is cluless or yk not that interested in you, just let him be, you will find someone better. XOXO

[Asker]

I was going to add him online first to ask him to hangout just as friends first

[Asker]

I kinda thought he was trying to impress after I told him my story about volunteering and he suddenly told me about him winning the British universities

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yeah, thats cool, yk I feel like he is into you, go with your plan, ask him to hangout just as friends first, like ya said, and then maybe things will happen, he might end up asking ya out too haha

[Asker]

I have pretty savage friends and thy said he went out with a fat girl before and think he isn't hard to get