Is it hard for shy guys to admit to a girl that they like her?

[Anonymous]

Even if they sent out once?

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Went out once*

[SimpleGuy95]

Yes for sure not only towards her but to anyone else as well.
Like stepping out with the decision is a bit deal and being confronted by other people with it.

[Asker]

During our date he was shy, awkward and nervous. After the date we exchanged some texts. Then I asked how he felt about the date. Now it’s taking him a while to even open my message (I know that he has seen it). It’s making me nervous. I asked him a simple question….

[Anonymous]

Very much so yes... Even if they aren't shy, Overall it's hard for guys to admit we like you because we don't want to hear the 1001 excuses females have...

[Asker]

During our date he was shy, awkward and nervous. After the date we exchanged some texts. Then I asked how he felt about the date. Now it’s taking him a while to even open my message (I know that he has seen it). It’s making me nervous. I asked him a simple question….

[Opinion Owner]

He probably doesn't know how to respond, I know if it was me, it would take me a while to respond so he doesn't fuck up his chance... Yes guys actually think about it very deeply

[Asker]

So it’s actually a good thing that it’s taking him a while to respond to me?

[Opinion Owner]

Really depends on the guy, I obviously don't know him but we overthink everything, If he says yes he enjoyed the date then he could be scared incase you ask him another 1001 questions & if he says no / doesn't reply he prob doesn't want you to take it the wrong way

[Asker]

What he doesn’t want me to take the wrong way?

[Asker]

? :)

[Theguywholikeq]

What could be taken the wrong way is his response, its very easy for a shy person like me response to be misunderstood,, but thats my “shy guy” pov. Hope this helps.🙂

[Asker]

@Theguywholikeq So it’s actually a good thing that it’s taking him a while to respond to me?

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes. This is in part because women have become so brutal in rejecting guys, including bashing them on social media and reporting them to HR. It is borderline illegal to approach a women these days.

[Asker]

During our date he was shy, awkward and nervous. After the date we exchanged some texts. Then I asked how he felt about the date. Now it’s taking him a while to even open my message (I know that he has seen it). It’s making me nervous. I asked him a simple question….
What do you think?

[Wise4myage]

It is for guys who are extremely shy.

[Asker]

I think I ruined things with him

[Wise4myage]

Don't jump to conclusions so fast.

[Asker]

I think he rejected me

[Wise4myage]

Oh, ok. Time to move on then.

[Asker]

I was vaguely asking him how he felt about the date. I don't know if that got him mad. He said that the date was alright.

[Wise4myage]

You did nothing wrong.

[Asker]

I asked him what he meant by when he said that the coffee date went alright. He then said I answered how you arranged the question. I can’t read you’re mind. The coffee date went alright but I don’t believe that it continues. Key word he used is “believe”.

[Asker]

I said to him” sorry I was too vague. I wanted to know if you wanted to meet again but I think I got my asnwer. ”

[Asker]

Tbh I was too vague when I asked him abot how he felt about our meeting. He then replied to me: I answered vaguely because your question was vague. I can’t read your mind… :D