If a guy doesn't say goodnight and good morning, does that mean he's not really into you?

[Anonymous]

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I thought that I am meddling too much in her schedule. Poking nose here and there I mean. Everybody has their own space right? I thought I may be irritating her with such messages. Especially images. So I stopped sending such messages altogether. As I myself get irritated with such images. They really serve no purpose I believe.

But here I find you yearning for such messages.

Please tell me, so that I can apply this in my own situation.

What do you feel when you read good night and good morning or such types of messages. The second question being---
Do you prefer just texts or are acceptable about the images too.

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion. It's very helpful

I like either a message or an image. It makes me feel. Excited inside because it shows he's thinking of me when he first wakes up.
Sometimes he's online early but never messages good morning. Sometimes we message until late in the evening, then all of a sudden he stops messaging. He never says goodnight. I know not everyone thinks like me, but it's making me think he's not as into me as I thought. I know it's sounds silly saying that, but it's just because I'm the sort who'll say goodnight and good morning

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

What is the messenger you use?

[Asker]

I use whatsapp

[Asker]

Sometimes he's been pine say at 6.30am bit doesn't read the last message from the night before. Hell usually respond but not until around 9 or 10am. Not sure if I'm just overthinking or not

[Asker]

Online**

[Asker]

Sorry for my typos

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Then he most probably has the WhatsApp web tab open in his browser. That makes him online. And many people sleep keeping their PCs/laptops ON. So that the next morning, they can just resume the work from where they left.
I think, that may solve one problem.

Moving on to the next point, he should at least give a soft warning before leaving. A clear statement like 'I need to goo to sleep. Good night.' is not expected, but a soft warning can also work.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I have WhatsApp web tab on all the time. Hence I am online all the time. But I rarely read any messages on the web and to avoid any distraction, I also have the sound notifications turned off.

[Asker]

Thanks a lot. You have been most helpful. It makes sense what you said.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope. It's not a way to tell much of anything, I've seen happily married couples never say that, and I've seen friends who aren't into eachother say that daily. it's about as relationship related as the word "hi".

[Emogirl999]

Nope, my boyfriend doesn't do it all the time and he's still into me, same goes for me, I dont always message him goodmorning or night because sometimes our schedules are different and I don't want to bother him while he is busy.

[Twalli]

Not at all, I am still extremely attracted to my girlfriend, and I don't text her good morning or good night.

[TwoToTooTutu2]

I text it to my girlfriend because I am romantic. But not all men are thar way

[Mate100]

Yeah true. Its a red flag

[In_Trance]

Not necessarily