If he doesn't text "Good Morning" does that mean he's not thinking about you?

[Anonymous]

If my boyfriend doesn't text or call to say Good Morning before he heads to work, does that mean he's not thinking about me?

[kholland65]

Not at all. Guys don't need to send a text to express you're feelings. A cellphone is not a window into the mind of a person. It's a selective form of communication. I really really really wish women would stop using texting as means to judge chemistry, a guys feelings, or the health of a relationship. I've had GF's who I was madly in love with but never texted or called because it wasn't my thing.

[Nick_K22]

Perfectly put bro. I personally hate texting. If you aren't there to reply within 5 minutes of her message, she starts assuming all this crap.

[kholland65]

I broke up with a girl last summer because she constantly complained that I didn't text her enough and said that we had no chemistry because of it. She had the nerve to compare my texting habits to her friends. She would text me at 8am asking what I was up to. "getting ready for work, what else" lol. Women are strange.

[INEEDADVICE223]

I feel as though if you love someone you would push past your comfort zone to convey that love, whether you are hip to texying or calling or not. I think it does depend on how often you could see her but all in all, I don't see how someone could keep being madly in love with someone all to themselves.

[kholland65]

@INEEDADVICE223 It's called talking in person. I'm an adult, I don't have time to be glued to my phone 24/7 and I have the emotional stability to not lose my mind if I go a day or two without talking to my SO. That's also my biggest issue with texting. I just don't have much to say. Most days are just not all that exciting. Like I said, I had a girlfriend that would text/call me almost every day at 8am. Every day it was the same thing. Just making breakfast and getting ready for work. I didn't see the purpose of the phone call. Personally I like to save my day's experiences for when we meet in person. If we text each other our every move, there is nothing to talk about when we finally meet in person.

I also did have a girlfriend once (best girlfriend I've ever had) that understood this. I simply told her that I'm not big on texting or phone calls so unless it was really important, I'd prefer we just talk when we see each other next. She respected that and it worked just fine for us.

[MissStrawberry912]

It’s your love language differences, you don’t really care for words of affirmation and don’t seem to understand why it’s important for your ex. But a good relationship also needs to understand and delivered its each other love languages. My ex was the same way and we had problems with communication about this. He told me words of affirmation doesn’t do much for him aka texts/calls. You probably just need someone who is okay to not text for a couple days or very short like you. Of course your friend is cool with it cuz that’s your friend 😂 it’s different when you’re dating someone vs friends.

[hsshannah96]

I worried about this cause he texts me other stuff alllll the time but he doesn’t send me good morning or good night messages

[WeaponZero]

It means he's an adult, and not obsessed with texting. He doesn't need constant reminders from you that you care about him and you shouldn't need them from him. Plus a lot of guys don't do "small talk." They don't say anything unless they have something important to say.

[Sujin95]

i don’t think guys will ever understand this. if he used to do that and now he is not doing it anymore, it’s so normal you to feel like this. but not doing it as before is the guy’s problem.

[cupcakes36]

i think there's nothing wrong with saying good morning to you its nice not obsessive.

[Lalalalalndjeiwjebd]

Girl yes that’s exactly why, because everybody looks at their phone when they get up or before they go to work. Also it’s not hard to say hey babe good morning have a great day. It takes less than a minute to do so. At least at some point in the morning if not he’s definitely not that into you. And any guy that goes “ you don’t need reminders” is an idiot. Because any man who is in love with his girl will always give you reminders you will never have you on the internet questioning. By the way, have you spoke with him? Have you let him know hey babe, I really enjoy when you text me in the morning when you get a chance I would like to hear from you. If you haven’t done this then asking questions on the internet is quite dumb. Communication is key hunny buns! If you already have spoke to him about this and he continues? Dump his ass!!! Because as a young beautiful woman who has an entire life ahead of her why are you stressing so much over a man who doesn’t even care to say good morning to you. Anyways have a blessed day!

[Mamaliv]

I try very hard not to over think this! Men have one track minds, when they wake up in the morning their mission is to get to work and do their job. Where a woman can do their hair, make up, grocery list, dishes and have their entire day planned out. It’s just the way the kind works. What gets to me is thinking if he is thinking of me he’ll let me know it, I need attention and acknowledgment. I get it your busy, I’m busy… just shoot me a simple, I hope your having a nice day text so I know I’m on your mind and I’m happy but look if I only hear from you every couple of weeks I’m gonna assume your not that interested in me.

[MissStrawberry912]

I think as women we like the formal good mornings contact to feel like they’re thinking of us and feel love. You should tell him it’s important for you to feel special/love. However, you can’t put a time frame on it as first thing he wake up to do… because people needs time to fully wake up, get ready, drive, or start work. But I understand it takes time for you to adjust to this and not have that type of expectation. I used to think the same at a very young age because of the same unrealistic expectation and I was just used to men texting/calling me that early. But everyone is different.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. I try to send a good morning to my girl every day if she hasn't done it first. Sometimes I forget. It literally takes 2 seconds to do and it let her know I'm thinking about her. But ofc I am thinking about even when I don't send her the text. If I'm gonna send texts to her every time I think about her I would send hundreds of them every day.

[MusicMayhem]

It means he's getting ready for work lol. He isn't going to risk being late for work texting you good morning.

[Goldengirl93]

I’m sure he’ll make time to check out those instagram girls before work tho. It’s all about priorities. Eh?

[Belgie]

No. It just means he didn't text.

Stop trying to read meaning into every single little thing.

[INEEDADVICE223]

Everything has meaning motive and purpose things don't just happen.

[Belgie]

@INEEDADVICE223 That's why you're 18 and don't know anything.

[INEEDADVICE223]

Sure

[Bombshell13]

Seriously? You don't think that's a little insecure?

[JustMeL120]

Means he's not a weirdo. Do you text good morning to every member of your family and every friends everyday? Lol

[RobLovesDemi19771992]

Oh brother maybe he’s just busy getting ready in tge mornings his life doesn't revolve fully around you

[ODC2112]

No it means that he thinks that you are not a child.

[hammeronfire]

it means its early morning and he just woke up and doesn't want to be. don't read into this

[belle007]

Nah it just means he's rushing out the door in the mornings lol.

[0ddjob]

No. It means that he is not obsessed with texting.

[omda123]

Yes and it means he is cheating😂😂😂🙊

[Anonymous]

You're reading way too far into this, honestly!