If he doesn't text "Good Morning" does that mean he's not thinking about you?

[Anonymous]

If my boyfriend doesn't text or call to say Good Morning before he heads to work, does that mean he's not thinking about me?

[kholland65]

Not at all. Guys don't need to send a text to express you're feelings. A cellphone is not a window into the mind of a person. It's a selective form of communication. I really really really wish women would stop using texting as means to judge chemistry, a guys feelings, or the health of a relationship. I've had GF's who I was madly in love with but never texted or called because it wasn't my thing.

[Nick_K22]

Perfectly put bro. I personally hate texting. If you aren't there to reply within 5 minutes of her message, she starts assuming all this crap.

[kholland65]

I broke up with a girl last summer because she constantly complained that I didn't text her enough and said that we had no chemistry because of it. She had the nerve to compare my texting habits to her friends. She would text me at 8am asking what I was up to. "getting ready for work, what else" lol. Women are strange.

[INEEDADVICE223]

I feel as though if you love someone you would push past your comfort zone to convey that love, whether you are hip to texying or calling or not. I think it does depend on how often you could see her but all in all, I don't see how someone could keep being madly in love with someone all to themselves.

[kholland65]

@INEEDADVICE223 It's called talking in person. I'm an adult, I don't have time to be glued to my phone 24/7 and I have the emotional stability to not lose my mind if I go a day or two without talking to my SO. That's also my biggest issue with texting. I just don't have much to say. Most days are just not all that exciting. Like I said, I had a girlfriend that would text/call me almost every day at 8am. Every day it was the same thing. Just making breakfast and getting ready for work. I didn't see the purpose of the phone call. Personally I like to save my day's experiences for when we meet in person. If we text each other our every move, there is nothing to talk about when we finally meet in person.

I also did have a girlfriend once (best girlfriend I've ever had) that understood this. I simply told her that I'm not big on texting or phone calls so unless it was really important, I'd prefer we just talk when we see each other next. She respected that and it worked just fine for us.

[WeaponZero]

It means he's an adult, and not obsessed with texting. He doesn't need constant reminders from you that you care about him and you shouldn't need them from him. Plus a lot of guys don't do "small talk." They don't say anything unless they have something important to say.

[Sujin95]

i don’t think guys will ever understand this. if he used to do that and now he is not doing it anymore, it’s so normal you to feel like this. but not doing it as before is the guy’s problem.

[cupcakes36]

i think there's nothing wrong with saying good morning to you its nice not obsessive.

[MusicMayhem]

It means he's getting ready for work lol. He isn't going to risk being late for work texting you good morning.

[Belgie]

No. It just means he didn't text.

Stop trying to read meaning into every single little thing.

[INEEDADVICE223]

Everything has meaning motive and purpose things don't just happen.

[Belgie]

@INEEDADVICE223 That's why you're 18 and don't know anything.

[INEEDADVICE223]

Sure

[Bombshell13]

Seriously? You don't think that's a little insecure?

[RobLovesDemi19771992]

Oh brother maybe he’s just busy getting ready in tge mornings his life doesn't revolve fully around you

[hammeronfire]

it means its early morning and he just woke up and doesn't want to be. don't read into this

[belle007]

Nah it just means he's rushing out the door in the mornings lol.

[0ddjob]

No. It means that he is not obsessed with texting.

[omda123]

Yes and it means he is cheating😂😂😂🙊

[Anonymous]

You're reading way too far into this, honestly!