How do men fall in love? Is it just about beauty? All I see is that guys only care about people who shine=beauty and don’t care about normal girls?

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Paul_in_Indy · Accepted Answer

Don’t confuse sex with love. Guys are, indeed, very visually attracted. But love is something different/more…which not all guys are interested in all the time.

Also, “shiny” girls—especially those who have really altered themselves to look like puffy-lipped weird-eyed Instagram stars—are not that attractive; certainly, they are very rarely “beautiful.” Guys tend to be drawn to them because they interpret all that effort at “shininess” as a signal of sexual availability. I think that’s a flawed concept: A) I often find that the girls who are “on display” (like peacocks) are pretty frigid, and B) If you pay attention to the more genuine girls, they more attractive.

You might conclude, upon thinking about it, that the guys drawn to shiny objects are not worth your time.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

We all have an energy with in US We Are All Made of energy and when two energies are compatible you can feel it I'm 100 miles away even further when you stand right next to each other your endorphins are just kicking ass it's the most beautiful feeling in the world and then you add who she is on the inside beautiful heart confident happy smart intelligent kind wisdom and that's who you fall in love with the person on the inside the outside is all just an extra bonus but all those three things have to be put together to make that energy connection

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Most people lose their beauty when they get older and many who remain attractive are corrupted by their good looks cause they did not have to earn their respect and beauty does not remain relevant if the person does not have good character, I usually only care about looks for around a month and than it’s intelligence and personality.

exitseven · Answer

I met a girl in college who was really only average looking. Somehow we got to know each other a little and the more I got to know her the better looking I think she got. After a while I found myself falling in love with her. She was quirky and funny and was just different from other girls. We were together for 4 years.

Anonymous · Answer

Every man is different, for some men it is beauty but for others it's other things. The best advice I can give is be yourself and some man will find it endearing. you may have to put yourself out there though. less and less men just randomly approach women these days.

bluwaffle · Answer

Different for every guy ig.
To me, falling in love is when a good friendship starts to build into something more romantic/intimate. If you both are great friends, and are attracted to one another, then maybe you two will be good together?
It's about how the two connect above looks.
Other guys might disagree, but that's how it is for me.

Anonymous · Answer

There was a girl I didn’t find attractive, not bad looking at all though. But we got along so well and I liked her a lot and every day I saw her she was more attractive, up to I really liked the way she looked

Anonymous · Answer

A guy takes interest in a girl because of her looks but
A guy falls in love for loyalty and character and he falls in love with 100% of his soul.

Girls only love as long as it is convenient for them. Which is why 80% of all divorces are initiated by a woman. Men will stay in a relationship no matter how awful the partner is because once we love we don’t want to like go

VikingWarLord · Answer

Cuz we know you Heauxs only care about our money or status (and to lesser extent our looks). We are walking ATM machines to you, we know that, so you be our little eye candy on our arm. Understood? Say YES DADDY I GOT IT !

Dornelldiallo13141 · Answer

Iknow a girl who i just met and she is beautiful but i didn't had a real crush only one month later i got a crush on her cause the way she talked and acted let me fell in love with her so some men love womens soul some just the beauty

Adronicus · Answer

When I was younger I was mostly attracted to visual as are most men. With age sometimes comes wisdom & I see beyond just appearance now.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Beauty is good for the initial interest, but personality is far more important for the longer term.

Anonymous · Answer

Young guys focus on good looks because society tells them to. Just like young women do.  Age and maturity can change this.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

You’re 18-24. You aren’t going to get many mature men your age.

Restauranto2o3 · Answer

If it puts the lotion on its skin Guys love that

Anonymous · Answer

I fall in love slowly overtime as I get to know about a woman and her personality.

clampfan101 · Answer

How would you say women fall in love?

Anonymous · Answer

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