Are blond boys look like a gays?

I blond and l am not a gay l am hetero and my mate alwas talk me that "You are blond so, You look like gay" I dislike my blond hair. Girls don't like blond boys and probbably l am look more feminine than my dark freinds becouse such insults probably do not come out of nowhere.
Are blond boys look like a gays?
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