Why do old guys get so angry when I tell them that I'm not attracted to them?

[shaysh87]

Whenever I tell an old guy that I'm not attracted to old guys, they just seem to get enraged. Some old guys understand why I'm not attracted to them but others just are angry and sad.

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@Sparkie460,

do you really think the vast majority women are attracted to senior citizens? Its time to you to stop dreaming and come back to reality.

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@Blackcosmo

Lets make this clear

I like older men but i dont like guys with white hairs wrinkles , hair loss and saggy balls. Im 26 , im attracted in their late 20s to 30s, but not 40s to 60s

[Anonymous]

they’re insecure
But fr old men are so repulsive not only are they creatures of the night looking goblins they’re usually creepy to women ON TOP OF THAT I am disgusted

[Texasgal95]

Because they’re horny and you’re young and they want a young woman to make them feel young again

[Anonymous]

It will hurt to some, so don’t read.

When I was 14-16, I was approached by so many older men, I felt grossed out by older men for quite a long time.

At that time I was chatting with people to improve my English and older men flirted in a very creepy way, even though they knew I was way younger than them.

I lost the trust knowing most of them had wives and kids older than me. I felt so disgusted…

So grossed out that for a long time I only had interest in guys younger or the same age as me. And I was annoyed older men felt entitled to date younger women, cause I thought they must have stayed with their wives instead of searching for younger girls like ms.

Can’t deny I was attracted to some older men in my 20s, but I was stubborn and always made sure, they knew they’d not have a chance with me. Because of that anger I had from my teenage years. I still feel disgusted of those men who were at their 40s - 50s and tried to have a perverted conversation with me at 14. Of course I was smart enough not to engage in such conversations but I was angry they dared to try.

At 14, I had my 52 years old teacher having a crush on me, I mean he was totally platonic and I admire him for that. But everyone in our class thought maybe he was a pedophile because of his special treatment to me.

All of these experiences made me lose interest in older men… And for a long time I thought women should also start dating younger men, not to give the feeling to the older guys that they can somehow get a girl who belongs with a younger guy, just so that men will also learn how it feels to to get old and not wanted, just like those wives, they neglected so that they could chat with 14 yo girls.

But I don’t think all older men are gross, I respect the ones who are not creepy and I find some interesting to talk and listen to, It’s just sad I had to go through that much anger because of my disappointing experiences in my teens. I still feel angry when I remember that 50 yo man trying to sext with me when I was 14. I would kick his balls if he was there now.

Sorry to everyone who were hurt by my words. I kind of got over that anger these days. But I hope older men these days will consider that if they are talking to underage girls, one day those girls are going to grow up and hate them and not only them but also other people who remind them of those men.

Then will come the rise of younger guys, hahah

[Zolly99999]

OMG... Some men are just pigs !! I feel bad for you now.. just know NOT all men are like that... But unfortunately there are lots of them.

[slatyb]

Why? They feel they have been treated unfairly by life.

Next time just say "Sorry, I'm already seeing someone." Maybe it's a boyfriend, maybe it's just your mother. They can't argue with that.

[slatyb]

How old is "old" to you? There's no right answer, just curious.

[shaysh87]

Im 26. To me, anything older than 40 is old. It might change as i get older tho.

[slatyb]

It will but so what? Today you are 26 and reasonably want to find a partner close to your age. A man who whines after being refused is just confirming the correctness of your decision.

[shaysh87]

@slatyb

Cuz the thing is nobody looks better as they get old. Maybe some rare exceptions. If i were 45, i wouldn't get angry if someone wasn't very attracted to me. I just dont understand why they feel like theyre entitled to being checked out their entire lives

[slatyb]

Old joke: You know you're middle-aged when you become invisible to teenage girls.

[shaysh87]

@slatyb

you know you're an old man if you can no longer get hot pretty young girls in their 20s that you used to be able to get.

[shaysh87]

@slatyb

or you know when you're an old man when girls call you a "creep" when you approach them.

[Blackcosmo]

Maybe it's because they're older than you and they think they can dominate you, but when you say no you hurt their pride.

[Sparkie460]

@Texasgal95 hit it on the nose. They want to be with a younger woman to feel young again. I love looking at younger women wishing I was young again. I would never get angry if someone wasn't attracted to me. I'd accept it, wish them a good day and move on. I have had young women ( 1 was 23 years old) flirt with me. I'm married so I declined her offer.

[shaysh87]

After taking a look at your profile pic, I honestly doubt any young woman ever hit on you. The last time it happened was probably 25 years ago.

[Sparkie460]

You can believe what you want. I'm not here to argue. There are younger women who like older experienced men

[shaysh87]

you look like a senior citizen.

[Sparkie460]

With your attitude I'm surprised anyone would approach you.

[shaysh87]

Sorry if I offended you but its the truth. There must be something wrong with you if you find senior citizens attractive.

[Sparkie460]

One day you will grow up and be the same age as me.

[shaysh87]

when i hit your age, i wouldn't be naive enough to believe that young folks would be attracted to senior citizens. Unless if there was something severely wrong with them.

[Sparkie460]

I'm not embarrassed about my looks. Apparently you are since you have a generic profile picture. That's probably why old people hit on you.

[shaysh87]

I'm a woman, I know what women are attracted to. And trust me, its not you.

there's no point in being offended. I'm sure you already know people don't look better as they get older.

Get over it.

[Sparkie460]

Now you speak for all women. I didn't know you became a big shot for all women.

You better hurry up and find a guy before you get old , saggy and decrepit. I'll pray for anyone who thinks about dating you.

Get off your high horse and come back to reality

[Blackcosmo]

There are people who are in relationships with older people and there's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes girls like to date older men because they feel like men their age are immature.

[exitseven]

Anyone who is old enough to be your father deserves to be treated like this.

[shaysh87]

It just boggles my mind guys who look like old fat uncles or grandpas still thinks theyre hot

[bubblegunnn]

Heartbroken, desperate, emotional damage baby

[Anonymous]

Things that never happened for $1000.

[AFretiredTXn]

What is old, to you at 31?

[shaysh87]

Im 26. In my opinion , anyone older than 40 is old. If you're 60, you're ancient