Men why do you accept your weakness?

[WizzardGirl]

I was surprised of this story:
so, my boyfriend told me a guy from his office annoys him everyday, tells him he is ugly, worthless etc. But when my boyfriend got tired and told him to shut up or getting slapped, that guy answerd:"you only attack the weak ones, why dont you talk like that to J he is bigger than you"... My boyfriend answered that "J doesn't talk shit like you do all the time!"

[lightbulb27]

can you clarify your question, it's an interesting situation, but not clear what you are asking.

What kind of garbage heartless environment he working it...
Guys do this to jack with each other... e. g. cut someone down to make themselves feel bigger. It is also a way of finding weak guys and making them tougher.

Time for him to find a more mature environment and find Christ Jesus so he can find some supportive males, so he can work on healing his inner wounds so he can handle these people from a position of emotional strength, so he isn't picked on... and becomes an asset to his employer.

He is likely projecting weakness to someone who is also a wounded child... that's the scenario. Mature, successful confident men don't jack with other guys like that.

Your boyfriend is likely a sensitive guy with a good heart, but projecting weakness and fear. He needs to take these "messages" from his environment to grow and mature and you are being very helpful to him in doing so, as a good woman would.

[WizzardGirl]

Could that guy be jealous of my boyfriend? why he acts like that

[WizzardGirl]

Fear? how is he projecting fear if another moron said he attack only weak ones... means himself.
He literally recognised himself as a weak man and called, indireclty, my boyfriend stronger than him
Right?

[lightbulb27]

emotionally wounded... hurt people hurt people. insecure people cut others down to size. evil preys on good. take that viewpoint see if works.
jealous... maybe, not sure.

[Anonymous]

If you think your boyfriend is "accepting weakness" then you got a lot of growing up to do.
Grown men fight because they're not very mature. Or because they're losers with nothing to lose anyway.🤣
Still there's always a little bit of macho bravado in most guys and some use it more than others. I do find the the fact that that guy was taunting your boyfriend then when your boyfriend didn't back down from him the guy suggested that he's afraid of other guys just not him. Because he called himself a pu**y that no one's afraid of by saying that. 🤣

[WizzardGirl]

Really? its his way of calling him a pussy? but he is not a pussy because no other guy fucking annoys him, only that little mouthy shit

[Opinion Owner]

Know you misunderstood. That annoying guy essentially called HIMSELF a pu**y by complaining that your boyfriend doesn't stand up to J. But your boyfriend will stand up to him. What guy complains about another guy's interactions with other men vs. his own? That's a total b**** move. That's what I'm saying. And your boyfriend made him look stupid by telling him "no one talks s*** like you do".

[Opinion Owner]

No* not know lol

[andreasderjuengere]

''Weakness'' is trained into a person from an early age.
Stuff like being told to only pee while sitting, to cry tears at any minor occasion, to not eat animals, etc.
Once 'you' are weak there naturally is no 'strength left to make a change.
It's not so much ''accepting'' it, but rather the brainwash of 'your' educator.

Losers are MADE - not born.

[Adam1978]

That is normal guy handling and has nothing to do with weakness. No one likes a person that complain all the time. Doesn't matter what it is about. You get told to fucking shut up or do something about it.

[WizzardGirl]

Why admit he is weak?

[Adam1978]

Attention

[WizzardGirl]

What do you mean

[Adam1978]

He is looking for someone to boost him up. Ie challenge his claims. He is a energy stealer.

[Lionman95]

Never, especially being told your worthless shouldn´t be something a guy excepts because that would turn down his self-confidence and motivation to do anything.
I think your boyfriend is acting correctly.

[Anonymous]

im 6 plus
and a big guy I can beat the shit out of a lot of guys

but I avoid conflict
the funny part is the smaller guys think they can do what they want

when really im letting them live and breathe air
when I can kill them whenever I want

[WizzardGirl]

Why those guys do that?

[Opinion Owner]

most of them are evil pieces of shit that won't change until times up

[Anonymous]

There was a person at work that said something stupid to me. I didn't even bother saying anything back because it wasn't worth my time. But when they saw how I looked at them, they apologized and said nothing like it again.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I'm not totally sure how much better he could have handled that. The other guy sounds like a child though

[Wonderwhat]

He should report him to the boss. The guy is being annoying and needs to leave your boyfriend.

[Freyke]

It's not a weakness. If J. Isn't a bully there is no reason for conflict.

[WizzardGirl]

He is not
The guy talking shit to my boyfriend is a bully he is scared of my boyfriend but insults him anyways
And accepts that he is weaker

[globetrotter22]

So what is your boyfriend supposed to do?

[WizzardGirl]

Nothing
He did good

[IsoUser]

I'm sorry I am not Gay lol

[cootjuhh]

im weak

[WizzardGirl]

Why you think so

[cootjuhh]

i never fight back to someone