Are weak men the problem in relationships?

[Steve-the-lion]

A lot of men complain about the way women are today, and I agree. But is it because most men today are weak and don't take the lead?

Men have been conditioned by society to see women as the prize and to follow the woman's lead. A man should only deal with a woman on his terms. For example, if a man asks a woman out for a drink, but she insists on going out for dinner instead, then that's a red flag. If the man agrees to go on a dinner date instead, then he's now following the woman's lead. He's doing what she wants in order to "please" her.

The reason bad boys and players get most of the sex and relationships, is because women are turned on by a man's strength and dominance. Yes, there are a few crazy people, feminists and liberals, who want a society of weak men, but in general women are attracted to men who are dominant leaders. The reason "nice guys" struggle with women is because they are perceived as soft and weak. They often lack backbone and leadership. And they don't have any boundaries and are afraid to lose their woman. Then when the woman cheats on him and leaves, he's like "I don't understand. I was so nice to her and tried my best to please her. But she still cheated on me and left."

So, the secret is to only deal with a woman on your terms. Don't be afraid to take the lead. Have boundaries. And if the woman does not follow your lead or becomes disrespectful, politely walk away and replace her.

[Anonymous]

Stop listening to red pill content online. They’re all loser men who don’t have a partner, at least not a stable life partner or scammers. Why would you take advice from someone who’s not in a happy healthy stable marriage. It’s a lie. They’re making money off of you. Some of them, like the dude who’s made it his career through podcasts and what not to sell desperate angry men the lie that women are garbage if they have a past and to stay away from divorced women, single moms and women with multiple baby daddies and you’re a simp loser if you do blah blah but was exposed as BEING MARRIED to a woman who has been married multiple times and have kids from several different men. These men don’t even believe their own bullshit. It’s a lie, a product, they’re selling to men who gets upset and consume more and more of their content and then go on online forums and spread these lies to other men. These content creators want you to remain single, they make a living of off it with ad revenues and/or selling classes or exclusive content. Wake the fuck up. You will never have a happy, healthy, lasting relationship with the mindset and view of men vs women you show in your post. That’s if you manage to form a relationship at all.

[Steve-the-lion]

I have no idea what you're talking about. None of the gibberish you said in your reply had anything to do with my question. You come across as crazy.

[beenherebefore]

The lack of masculinity can definitely be a problem.

[Anonymous]

Weak men are a problem, but not THE problem.

The reality is MOST women today either do not know what they really want, or want what they have no hope in hell of ever achieving. As a result half the men get ignored and the other half get played with.

Yes, it would best if all men knew their boundaries and told the women that repeatedly cross them to just just f*** off. But we are in an era of history where people think half their value lies in their social status. As a result too many men feel their value is derived by how many women dig them.

[Steve-the-lion]

But that's what I'm saying, women wouldn't be able to play men if men did not allow them.

[DonaldDarko]

You have to actually be a bad boy thug with a reptile view of the world and an IQ to match though. Otherwise you'll realize you're just getting an oversize child to take care of and it will ruin it for you.

[jahaims]

Unhealthy immature people are the issue. Gender isn't relevant

[Anonymous]

No, some women are naturally dominant.