Why is it such a turnoff when a girl has a tummy?

[Sarahslater3738]

I have a tummy going on and I don’t understand why guys have such a turnoff with that!

[caring__1]

People often view things as patterns. They may be OK with what is but fear where the pattern will take you. Self care is more than fancy makeup, nails, hair and clothing. People want to see a legitimate effort to maintain the infrastructure. That doesn't mean they are looking for perfection... just a legitimate effort without a lot of excuses. No guy wants to hear women say "it is normal for women to get fat as they age," though I can't say how many times I've heard that. If I still ate the way I did as a teenager, I wouldn't be able to fit through doorways.

As an example, my office building changed owners last year. The new owners have been putting a lot of money into making the exterior fancy, but they're totally ignoring the infrastructure. They wouldn't stop a sink, that I never used, from backing up into my office, so I just capped the drain and let it back up elsewhere. They're putting cheap vinyl planks on the uneven concrete floor in the entry and hallways. Now it sounds like horses are walking down the hallways. Apparently, they just want it to look good until they can sell the building to someone else, who will be left fixing their quick fixes.

[Sarahslater3738]

I’m very confused by your analogy…

[caring__1]

Sometimes people focus on what they feel is important and minimize what might actually be important to others. When other people are involved, it's a good idea to reach out to see things through their eyes rather than just our own. Getting the perspective of strangers won't necessarily help you to understand a specific individual. We get further by showing consideration for others rather than just focusing on our own sense of entitlement.

[andreasderjuengere]

When I grew a little one myself (out of covid-induced 'inactivity') I hated it.
A body that's not firm indicates (I said it already) - inactivity; and some disinterest for one's own well-being.

A little bulge of course is ok - but anything beyond that will not appeal me.

[TheorionMage]

Because every male subconsciously responds to a prominent female tummy as a subliminal possible pregnancy...

I once had an amazing friends with benefits experiencing what she later termed as a 'hysterical pregnancy' and it made her exceptionally randy. Each time we subsequently coupled, I could not help to be irrationally imagining I was physically poking her unborn child. ~ When her imagined pregnancy went to term, there was no way to reconcile those imaginary suspicions~

[Thatbaldguy]

Well. Not all guys think it’s a turn off. I think a woman with a tummy is sexy.

[DavidRaul]

Well its not a turnoff. Dont be with guys who make you feel so low because of the tummy. Its normal and not a turnoff for right guys like us.

[serious]

That is because it indicates that the woman cares less about her physique and appearance.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason we don't see why confidence is so important to you women. You give me a good reason for that and I'll give you a good reason for the flat tummy.

[Sarahslater3738]

Huh?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, you just want to play dumb eh. OK, well I guess I don't understand what you're talking about either.

[Sarahslater3738]

Well wow

[Vinni89]

I guess it's a physical preference. A man also sees it as a health hazard. A man from an animal stance wants the healthiest partner. But it does make a person ugly or bad :)

[TrillXHippy]

Ask guys any question and the answers you’ll get will either be the same or it’s probably going to be different

[TrillXHippy]

Don’t care, doesn’t matter, it’s not a turn off so stop assuming

[Anonymous]

why did I need a 6 six like when I was young

for girls to drool over me?

you are shooting yourself in the back hun

[Sarahslater3738]

What

[Opinion Owner]

when I was young I was a skinny kid with no muscle
GIRLS DID NOT LIKE ME

I started to work out ( NOT FOR THEM )
and the girls changed
and they started to offer me sex

girls are shallow

so If I do not want a fat bitch
guess what lose the weight

[Sarahslater3738]

Ok coool

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it’s a turn off. I’m fact, it makes sex in missionary position feel better when there’s a belly to bounce on. 😉

[FilmGuy93]

How much of tummy are we talking about?

[SeekingVirginWife]

Then don't eat cheetos.

[scott04sa22]

You mean Chubbys and bbws

[ACR130]

Same reason why girls don't like short guys. 😑

[Fuentes]

Tummy is ok i like a thick chick

[roy_ricky09]

It's not

[Nahid1707]

it is okay to have

[cootjuhh]

for me its a turn on