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Guys, Be honest are you a SIMP? (Page 2)
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Me doing the most? Haha no
Always trying to impress females? I don’t try to be something that I’m not, I don’t try to fit in, I don’t try to show out
Put females before myself? No
Defend females for 🐱? I don’t defend females period point blank cause whatever they got going on doesn’t involve me
Hates women slander? This is me because I have nothing to do with that 🚪👈🚶♂️
Let females walk over me? No
So no I ain’t no simp
Yes…at times lol
Can you please answer my most recent question?
if you ask your question on here sure!
This girl doesn’t seem too interested it seems?
Basically I’ve known this girl for some time now. Met back in college went out a few times, was intimate once, and actually tried to somewhat pursue each other. However, she transferred sophomore year as she wanted to go back home at the time. She kind of went off the grid for a bit from her socials so I had no way to contact her. Fast foward to now, we kept in contact on and off as she added me on social media both my personal and clothing brand page. I’m suppose to visit her hometown for family purposes but I asked to go out sometime with her while there and she said yes. This will happen at the end of the month though so I gotta wait a little till then. Told her not too long ago that it’s been a while I’ve seen her in person and look forward to it and she replied this:
“Aw that’s sweet of you thank you and good morning!
Yes it’s been a long time now I would say. I’m looking forward to that as well”
So now she’s always posting selfies on her stories and I give her compliments here and there and tell her to have a good day but when she replies she seems non interested now:
“aw thanks *my nickname *”
“Thank you, likewise! ”
”thank you!!”
just standard replies.
idk…am I overthinking it or am I right in terms of her not being that interested really.
@turtlewax1994, I refrain from reading too much into texts because they create a communication barrier, they really do sometimes a person can text you excitedly or angrily and to you while you read it it may seem not excited or angry... but don't get me wrong sometimes just sometimes you can pick up a persons vibes through a text message but this is not a common occurrence i think its wayy easier to pick up a persons vibes in person because they can lie to you using their words but their body language will be telling!.
they say never ask women for dating advice if you are a man because apparently we are bad at it for men😭, but i'll give you my honest opinion because i want the best for you even if we are strangers 😊
first let me think about it carefully, I'll comment on this ASAP!
You are definitely overthinking about this, here are some pieces of advice that i am begging you to consider.
1. Try not to comment on every single pic she puts up because then your making yourself seem too available which can be off putting for most women. Try to do other things to get your mind off her I can tell you like her and you probably think about her a lot which is normal but you thinking of her should not cause your life to pause, You have things to do eg. hang out with friends, meditate, take a long drive, etc.
2. Consider the part I said about how texts can be problematic, you can text her after 2 days from today and say something like, I have missed you, seeing your great pictures is awesome but it's not helping me miss you a lot less its actually making me miss you even more so I promise that when I get to your home-town, i'll give you a call so we can plan a date!
this way she'll know your interested in her After you send this text stop commenting on her pics, stop watching her statuses, stop dming her and may be take a break from social media entirely but since you have a business there, you can do your business and text only friends and family stuff like that. Please fulfil your promise of calling her when you get to her hometown to plan a date! then meet her face to face that will tell you how interested she is in you, cause you can see her body language!.
If she's not the one you're lucky cause there are a lot of single amazing women out here! your gonna have to work hard to find them but it will be worth it also, is she is the one dming you first then you can respond to her dms, Best of luck with everything😊, take care! I hope I was helpful!
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I did simp after a girl years ago when I was young, immature, and inexperienced. But since then I have grown to have more self respect. I use that past experience as a reminder of the deep dark pit that I don’t want to fall back into.
A woman either simp's for me, or she is the opposition.
I think you done found the cheat code😂.
Hell yeah... I get paid just to be. I haven't worked in forever. I'm just hot.
I'll put it like this... I see other guys go on the sexual market place and they're all scrambling to prove they do this or that and make money. Me... fuck that shit... you wanna suck this dick or your friend will. You want to keep this dick... give me a place to sleep and a PS5... and a weight cage. It's not all that bad if you think about it... She has a hot guy dicking her down and she buys me shit. Boo hoo, she has to work to make the money. Is it all that different from all the chicks that do EXACTLY THE SAME SHIT? I mean really... I learned this shit from watching my Mom fuck over my step-dad... I wasn't the only step-kid, but I was the only other male. I was looking at his situation and I was like, "Fuck, do I want to be that guy working his ass off for bullshit or her?" Obviously, I didn't go the Tranny route and got gay to do it. I just started lifting weights. I can talk shit and I stopped giving a fuck about stupid mother fucking problems... that made me "gods gift to women." She bitches about work, I tell her to shut the fuck up and suck this dick. What would a blue pilled dude do? sympathize and cuddle? No wonder those fuckers get cucked!
I want a man who will cuddle with me, be affectionate, treat me nicely, respect me, care about me, text me, call me, ask me out on dates, make time for me, tell me about anything, i am a great listener, have fun with me, and i will also do these things for them as well, i reciprocate, i'll do all the things i said i want in a man i'll pay for dates, i'll get you thoughtful gifts, ask you interesting questions, i'll make you laugh, most people find me funny as heck, i'll never ask you to by me expensive gifts because i'm a minimalist and i love saving money, all i like is flowers and food lol, i'll treat you well, i'll send you texts, call you, think about you, put you first etc. i am a kind woman and i have been told this but unfortunately kind people get abused in this world, so now if your a kind soul you have to be careful about the partners you pick otherwise you'll find yourself in a toxic abusive relationship because nice people are the victims that toxic souls seek out, that's the truth.
and i don't care about money yes we need it to survive i only save money in case of emergencies, but i love thoughtful gifts, a card, a drawing/painting that you made, flowers, food yess lol, stuff like this that don't cost a lot of money. Also i would totally date a man who makes less money than me, money is not y priority i just have it and make it because i need it to take care of myself and others.
All I'm saying is if you're a chick and you just want a guy that does nothing but lifts weights for the D... prepare to pay the rent. I've seen how many of those sensitive guys just get cheated on and burned. They should've just lifted weights. She will pay the bills and fuck all that "work" bullshit.
Shit sounding I know... but it's truth. I mean not only will she pay the bills, she will share you with other women and they pay bills as well. It's a win-win for a guy to drop out of work and just be hot. JUST LIKE SO MANY CHICKS DO!!!
These days, any guy who comments favorably on a woman is a SIMP. So they get on social media to fetch attention; and when they are given attention, they label you a SIMP.
Funny I did a Google search and it said almost exactly this! Just complimenting a woman or not being a dock makes you a simp.
@zeitgeist057 😀 Thanks for the comment.
This is why I avoid the problematic world of social media lol!
@Asker Ever human is a different person behind the screen and the touchpad... A nastier, cockier and louder version of his actual personality.
@havenoname, us humans do have a tendency to only show the world our best selves, this is why online dating is a huge scam as well because, you match with the girl/guy based on physical attractiveness and may be common qualities, interests that they listed on their profile then you chat with them and your like wow this person is the best person I chatted to, so y'all set a date to meet up face to face and in person there's absolutely no chemistry. Or you chat to a person on a dating app and you have no chemistry with that person only because the texting back and forth was creating a communication barrier between you two but you decide to block the person and call them boring thinking they are not your match when they actually are because had y'all had met in person you would have realized that you had chemistry and great in person communication. these are a few examples but there are many reasons why it is always better to meet people in person, because that way they will not always be able to hide their terrible qualities and that will help you determine if you can put up with those terrible qualities or not.
I am the most “I don’t give a fck about women and what they think of me” kind of guy there is.
I’m just mentally exhausted from women and all their drama and bs at this point.
I literally don’t want 99.99% of them
You sound very angry, meaning a lot of women must have put you through a lot, hopefully your anger will subside someday because your anger is only harming you and not the women who you are angry at!. anger is a poison.
Not really. Most girls my age just aren’t mature is all. And that extends to most guys my age as well
No but people on this site have called me a simp because I do not think guys should hit women.
they are jealous that your strong enough to not commit any violence towards women!
some of the people that had a a problem with it were girls.
Well then I for sure am a simp
I honestly haven't, I'm usually pretty mean to girls I like which might not he healthy attitude either.
Yep, they eat that up. Makes them feel insecure and like you more 😂 Not healthy, but look at all the abused women that stick around getting slapped around.
@zeitgeist057 i'm glad you realize that its not healthy to be usually mean to women
@asker tbh I'm smh at most of the relationships I see. I'm of the (unpopular) opinion that most people you meet or see on the street are not stable/self-aware/unselfish enough to be considered decent relationship material. Most people need a LOT of work. But that's alright. We just keep fumbling around, fucking up, hurting each other, hopefully learning our lessons and becoming better people through all the pain and suffering.
I used to be, and any guy that says no is most probably lying. But in my mid 20s I realized that I was being used. I became more selfish and lo and behold results started coming.
Same here my friend. Your mid 20s are definitely a big change for any men. We realize a lot and the game changes in our 30s. Only issue is women aren't as attractive at that age.
No. If I care about you I will show my affection towards you, but I will not have you use me or control me like I am your puppet. I do it because I want to, not because you want me to. If you treat me right, I will give you the same.
Growing up with two twin sisters, I tend to stick up for girls and girlfriends making sure that no one disrespects them. Take it how you see it Lol
if they are disrespectful themselves the women that you defend then you are a SIMP.
I just always stood up for my twin sisters, regarding aggressive behavior from boyfriend's etc.
I respect your point, but growing up in an openly nudist household I very seriously doubt that they would disrespect anyone
I don't even know what a quote " SIMP" is Lmao
I am not a simp, no. I know a lot of guys who are though; the problem is knowing how to set healthy personal boundaries with people. Doting on a woman is not the same as simping for her.
I do a lot for a girl but I ain’t a simp, there are limits
Well said!
Ya know if that chick in the Pic had as many stickining out of her as she's had in her she'd look like a pin cushion. She reminds me of this girl all the fellas used to know. We called her the bone collector.
Ain't no simpin in me. It's just the pimpin in me.
i bet it's tough out here for a PIMP!
that's called marriage.
put up with it for a long time but not anymore.
There are a lot of women in this world who are willing to treat you just as great as you treat them, and who are willing to add on to your already existing happiness, i think if a man can't find a woman like this he should rather stay alone, its better to be alone than to be treated like dog poo!
totally agree.
once her parents left her $ she was a millionaire.
in return she treated our son and i like crap, then tried to blame us for everything negative.
she'll live out her life sad and alone.
she'll face the consequences of her actions!
yep.
lonely bitch who still can't figure out why.
sadly i have been known to own and carry a simp card :(
but i have learned to have balls if you want a woman to like you i mean really like you :)
I just want to say that i am glad that you are not simping anymore because it does not sound healthy, what's healthy is SIMPING for a woman who will gladly SIMP for you in return.
Well being a good Christian means Serve and Help your environment, especially your girlfriend/wife.
yes but you must put God above any other person and focus more on serving him despite what others say of you! its God first then everything else!
Yes, God first then the humans. Bit Jesus say "what you have done to one of my brethren you did tobme."
I’m too lazy to simp I don’t even wanna do stuff for myself
You need some coffee/red bull lovin
No, even before that word became mainstream I always thought putting someone on a pedestal like that is a bad idea.
No, never done that. But when younger there were some women I put on such a pedestal that I never would have dreamed of approaching them in a romantic/sexual manner.
Nope, I was turned cold hearted. I'm a, you can't prioritize women type of guy
Hopefully you won't have a cold heart towards the women who treat you well.
Yes, I simp for girls at the gym. I try not to, but it's a way of getting attention. I'm average at best in terms of looks, but I'm obese
hopefully you reflect on that and see if its potentially causing any detriment to your life and if it is you should find ways to fix that, for your own good.
Yes I was not gonna lie but Red pill changed my mind since
by the way They did a research, and found that's simp men is simp because of these two things :
1-Lack love from you're mom
2-Too much love from you're mom
that's interesting!
That's a Fact trust me since I was lacking the love from my mom and my dad left me since divorce and Haven't seen him for 12 years, I once was talking with a girl from USA, she started saying she love me since I am shy, so I believed her, and I was Even calling her Angel but she was too beautiful even better than actors, But after 2 months she blocked me, She was freelancer model, posting sexy hot pics on ig...
Thanks for sharing this, It's super eye opening ngl!
I read your symptoms and all answers are no, so nope.
Yes I'm a simp.
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You incorrectly presuppose that I give any kind of shit what you retarded generation thinks about anything.
If you ever figure out what a boomer is perhaps we can take it from there.
Then why comment on this topic if you don't give a S*IT? why waste your energy like that my love, why waste your precious non-renewable time posting this comment, you could have just said nothing actions speak louder than comment posts..
Because I am a kind and generous man and will always make an effort to help and educate the less fortunate and misinformed.
But you are right, you are a complete waste of time.
your not kind and generous at all, your rude, in life you must let other people tell you that you are kind and honest, you can't say things like that about your own self... do better please, set a good example for us Gen Z's!
Stop embarrassing my beloved boomers!
I am rude too, those things are not mutally exclusive. Not tolerating your retarded bullshit is setting a good example for you, you just can't see that.
ok why are you saying I am a retard? what did I do that exhibits retardation? since your a shrink and you are certified and can diagnose a plethora of various mental disorders/illnesses?, Seriously though, All I did was ask a question yes I used modern lingo in that question but I did what this website said we must do which is ask questions so where is retardation in that?
I think may be I offended you or something, I don't know, and you have great hair, when I looked at your pic before I read your rude comment💔 I was like ohhh lovely hair then I read your comment I was like... huh why did I do wrong to this human? so please tell my what I did wrong, how am I retarded?
Retardation is not a mental disorder it is simply a low IQ but it is obvious from the context that the word is not being used in a clinical or technical sense but as a slang term.
Not that the term is even used clinically anymore for reasons best illlustrated by George Carlin.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7n2PW1TqxQk
I am happy to concede that my comments are unnecesarily harsh, it is just rhetoric, a stylistic choice rather than a substansive one and you are right, i do have lovely hair, thank you for the compliment.
Though of course having now softened my position I will presumably now be labelled a simp and attacked on that basis.
@guffrus, if anyone attacks you for being a simp that that reflects on them as a person and not on you. People love to project their own insecurities onto others and sometimes they do this by labelling them, If a guy is a SIMP then he should reflect on that and see if its potentially causing any detriment to his life and if it is he should find ways to fix that. Anyone who makes fun of a person who is vulnerable enough to admit something that they do clearly has problems. That's like making fun of an obese person who admits to being obese, that's plain cruel and jerk like behavior!. It's a them problem not a you problem, besides I'm a women here and you've slandered me, not put me on a pedestal etc. (it's okay I'm a sticks and stones person, no hard feelings) that does not make you a simp according to the symptoms of what behavior classifies a guy as a simp. So whoever is going to call you a simp better not be a doctor or health care worker because they'll be the kind of workers who diagnose cancer patients with HIV and give STD medication to influenza patients.
yes i am just like the most guys on gag but they won't answer yes on this question tho
hopefully you reflect on that and see if its potentially causing any detriment to your life and if it is you should find ways to fix that, for your own good, also i highly appreciate your honesty
I'm only simp online because that's where I feel most confident, in real life im too scared for rejection like it happened to me on my first time asking a girl out ever since then i gave up
online is where i thrive and waste my money on girls that even dont like me but for some reason it fullfills me I don't know why, twitch is one platform i simp too much , defend any girls that gets attacked send mad money so they can pretend they like me and you re right I need to change my life
instagram is another profile where i simp over the models
another platform *
i'm so happy for you being willing to change your life😊 i am a stranger to you, yes but hearing that you are going to make a change makes me happy, i want better things for all humans including you!, thank you so much for your honesty and i wish you the best of luck with everything!, please don't be hard on yourself for any mistakes that you have made in life, you are going to make mistakes until you die, it's in our nature to make mistakes because we are only human Afterall. what's important is what we learn from those mistakes and how we apply those lessons to better ourselves and our lives!
You are right, thank you :D
After reading you're description, I am definitely NOT a SIMP!
I'd only do shit like buy flowers. Write a love poem. Cards. Anything for her...
But only if she shows me that she like me and wants to be with me
Nope, I don't defend women just because of their gender. In fact, I don't follow and simp for random people on the internet.