I sent nudes to him but now he is ignoring me and left me on opened. why?

[Anonymous]

Basically me and this guy have been flirting for a couple of months. I liked him but I wasn't sure if he liked me. Last month he kept asking for nudes. And finally I gave in. we shared nudes about twice. suddenly like 3 days after the second time he started snapping less. Finally he left me on opened. I was pissed so I sent him a chat, but then deleted it. he replied saying "no" and I left him on opened. I don't know what he is thinking.

[Fireguy17]

Not that I have ever ask for nudes or sent them that does seem odd that if you send them, and someone else sends them back I would think that things were going good in order to do that.
Do you think he just adds them to his collection?
o ther than that I don't have a clue, and it seems like he won't be telling you why anytime soon.

[Whatever2929292]

Well this is why you should not be sharing nudes. He just wanted a photo of you and he got what he wanted. You should never ever share nudes with someone especially if you don't even know him or barely know him.

You don't know what they will do with them and it is too late to do anything about it

[Asker]

I do know them that is why it is weird. Cause I have been swimming with him for like 4 to 5 years now

[Whatever2929292]

Asker, I think he was just using you. I think it is weird and creepy to be asking for nudes. I think that you need to let this one go. Tell him that you feel creeped out. You should not have sent the photos regardless.

[Asker]

I completely agree with you, and don't why I sent them in the first place.

[Whatever2929292]

Asker, we all make mistakes and we all make bad choices. If someone really is a good person they won't keep asking and asking and asking for nudes. They won't even ask for them unless you are married or something like that.

Take it as a lesson learned. Alright

[bubblegunnn]

he's an azzhole! Listen to mama, dont u ever ever send nudes again! He just using u or prolly he jerk on it too then he dump u n everything will be very super awkward if u both meet irl

[WhitneySnow]

He’s lost interest now that you sent him nudes. What did you say in the chat that he said “no” to?

[Asker]

I was confused. cause I had just deleted a few things and that is all he said

[IJhonnyI]

YES, but what did you say it's possible he saw them before you deleted it what did you delete?

[Asker]

@IJhonnyI I kinda possibly got mad...
but it wasn't something to say yes or no too

[WhitneySnow]

I think he’s lost interest, probably cause you got mad and he already got your nudes

[IJhonnyI]

Probably just lost interest after seeing you nude, he's probably just an asshole like that there's all types of people in this cruel fucked up world

[Asker]

I was warned about him being a jackass, but I knew him and met him before all that

[IJhonnyI]

Oh damn, well now it's clear, don't worry, just continue on with your life and find someone actually worth who you are

[LazerBean]

He played a game and won. That's all. No need for him to play anymore.

[Dontaaaa]

He probably didn't like your nudes and now he's less interested.

[Asker]

he said cute 😭😭😭

[Dontaaaa]

He probably said that to not hurt your feelings.

Probably.

[Asker]

honestly yeah ur probably right. I don't know he was just so ughhhh