He asked me for nudes and when I said no he ghosted me do I give him another chance?

[kareenakapur]

told him i didn't feel comfy and then he ghosted me lol. I sent a message 2 months ago lol like wyd kinda. He snapped me again. I'm conf what he wants. Says he likes my outfits lol. Do i give it another chance or he's just going to ghost me again

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+1 y

'WYd" and that was 2 months ago he didn't reply. Now he sends me a pic of his face haircut lol. i said it looks good and now he asking me questions and stuff lol. weird

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+1 y

oh and I was sending sus pics of myself. not nudes but def v suggestive lolll

[Leapfrog00]

Still talk to him, but tread waters carefully. He might just be being nice so you'll cave when he finally asks for nudes, or he maybe he is being sincere. Either way, if he ghosted you before because you wouldn't send them, that's a red heiring itself that he's only after your body. I'd use caution on this one. No get out of jail free cards for him!

[PointTaken]

He ghosted you why are you talking g to him again? He's probably thinking you'll send nudes this time.

[kareenakapur]

lol i know his fam. I don't know why I'm talking to him ur right. i won't send nudes lol. i think he's just happy getting what I'm giving. my sus pics.

[kareenakapur]

im attention seeking lol

[PointTaken]

Lol. That's not good. You should try to slow down on the attention seeking. He asked for nudes, now you're talking to him again after he ghosted you. You initiated it so now he's thinking king you'll send the nudes.

[PointTaken]

When are you going to send him nudes?

[kareenakapur]

lol if he wants to meet me. he can see it in person... maybe

[PointTaken]

Lol. That's the way to bait him into sex. He will definitely meet you then. You must be hot for him to wanting to keep seeing more and more.

[kareenakapur]

Lol but thats the thing i keep telling him i look even better in person but he doesn't take the bait. Lit last time just said “nice” lol like whatttt dude 😭😭

[PointTaken]

So you are wanting him to come over for sex. Nice. Why isn't he then?

[kareenakapur]

lol because i live an hour away we are Muslim and both prob virgins. he lives at home. and I'm not sure he gets my drift exactly bc i denied him the bra pic.

[PointTaken]

Yet he ghosted you after denying him nudes. Then you reach out to him. That tells him you changed your mind and will send him nudes. So send him the nudes you reached out to him for.

[kareenakapur]

Shoot ur right thst is totally thr sign im giving oops im stupid

[PointTaken]

Completely. He wants the nudes now. It's like you changed your mind and will send them. That's why you reached out to him.

[PointTaken]

At least to his point of view.

[SnowedIn]

No second chance on this one unless you want to give nudes. That's what he wants. If you're not comfortable with that, don't.

[kareenakapur]

i just feel awk bc i was sending him rlly sus pics but not nude lol. he always liked them just then he asked for me to send a pic in a bra and i said i dont feel comfy. and then ghosted lol. sent wyd 2 months ago. ghosted. then recently I sent him cute pics and he said he liked them etc complimented me. ghosted me when i asked whats the move for today. week later sends me a pic of his hair cut. and i say it looks good. and now he's asking me questions about my life like huh. what u want man

[SnowedIn]

Yeah. Not respectful of you. Regardless of what you already did.

[Anonymous]

Lol man women are easy to manipulate these days. No of course not you don’t give him a second chance. He wants to mail you, see you naked. How hard is that to understand? Move on. Unless you want to send him nudes, to which you will most likely be treated like trash. He says he likes your outfits to butter you up to get to your buns lol

[nolabels]

No.

Think about it for just a minute.

No.

[kareenakapur]

why not lol. i felt like i sent him sus things but when he asked me for a bra pic is was weird about it lol. and maybe he ghosted me bc i hurt his ego? lol. but maybe just giving him excuses

[nolabels]

I don't know him, but I know guys in general.
I'd never ask that of a woman unless our relationship had progressed to a point of comfortable intimacy between us.
I could be wrong, but he sounds like a creep to me.

[kareenakapur]

ok thank you i will just be kind to him need to stop sending him suggestive stuff

[mommymommymommy]

If he's asking for nudes, he's just tryina get in your pants hun. Trust me on this

[kareenakapur]

im sooo out of his league. i feel like i intimidated him lol and hurt his ego. maybe I'm wrong.

[mommymommymommy]

Most of the time, if he's just trying to get ass, we don't care how you look

I know that sounds horrible but, horny men, will fuck just about anything

[kareenakapur]

lolll dang ok. good to know

[spartan55]

@kareenakapur
You've said more than once that you are out of his league yet you let him treat you like complete trash... so you aren't making any sense.

[kareenakapur]

@spartan55 Lol you're right I just let all guys treat me like trash. The nice ones dont come along so I let the trash ones talk to me because I'm lonely :(.

[mommymommymommy]

Boredom- A desire for desires-Leo Tolstoy

[LiamJHayden]

No. He revealed what he values, and it is not you.

[kareenakapur]

darn ur right im just dumb. ill just be nice and not send him anything

[Andres77]

A little self respect would be a good idea

[kareenakapur]

i need some of that

[roy_ricky09]

You must be joking.
Stop drooling over him

[kareenakapur]

lol im not i just like the attention i think. I'm way out of his league : (

[kareenakapur]

and he has good stats reputation. good job tall rlly good future lol ugh. idea of him is good.

[roy_ricky09]

Again! Read your message again. You are defending.
Also you might wanna stop acting like westerners.
Also, there's no such thing as out of league.
You are devaluing yourself, as if you don't have any self respect.
So what if he has good stats, he must have worked hard for it. Why can't you do the same.

[roy_ricky09]

Also, he wouldn't have asked for nudes, if he actually had good stats as you say. He certainly doesn't want to waste time on you and get what he wants else Goodbye.

[kareenakapur]

i do i have same stats lol. just hard to find that in a guy too

[kareenakapur]

just im small lol.

[kareenakapur]

can't change that

[roy_ricky09]

Yea right! SO WHAT! Still defending.
Few days ago you had a boyfriend going down on you and now this guy.
I must clap for you.
No more messages for someone who is this dumb.

[kareenakapur]

lol ur funny that was not a few days ago. that was a century ago @roy_ricky09.

[roy_ricky09]

See. You just made me to think I should stop wasting my time here with you. Go do whatever you want. Cheers

[kareenakapur]

Sorry. I really really appreciate your opinion. I am just delusional. you're right though I'm not going to send him sus stuff.

[roy_ricky09]

No no madam. Do whatever you want, we don't care.

[manthan_5545]

What if he'll again ask

[kareenakapur]

i just feel awk bc i was sending him rlly sus pics but not nude lol. he always liked them just then he asked for me to send a pic in a bra and i said i dont feel comfy. and then ghosted lol. sent wyd 2 months ago. ghosted. then recently I sent him cute pics and he said he liked them etc complimented me. ghosted me when i asked whats the move for today. week later sends me a pic of his hair cut. and i say it looks good. and now he's asking me questions about my life like huh. what u want man. I would send if we met lol and he for sure showed he wanted something w me

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not.

[kareenakapur]

why not lol. i felt like i sent him sus things but when he asked me for a bra pic is was weird about it lol. and maybe he ghosted me bc i hurt his ego? lol. but maybe just giving him excuses