He begged me to blow him on the second date, I did and he blocked me?

[Anonymous]

Why did he do this to me? I told him i didn't want him to think badly of me. We were in his car. I really liked him. He started giving me puppy dog eyes and begging me to. After 5 minutes of begging i caved and did it. He came. A few weeks later he suddenly tells me " i can't return the feelings" . Before that he showed me a tik tok post about how girls are easy and then they complain about not getting into a good relationship.

Why would he humiliate me like this. Its not something i do with just anyone. He made me feel like i dont deserve to be taken seriously because i gave him head

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He has also since blocked me on every platform

[Anonymous]

"a few weeks later"? What happened during that time? I feel like there's much more to this in this particular situation. However that aside, he's just 100% selfish, that's it. Again, 100%. He did not care about you at all to begin with, therefore didn't care about how you felt or what you did and didn't want. No respect (even basic) for you either. So that's how. Take yourself (and feelings) out of this completely because they didn't matter to him. A "bad apple".

But, don't beat yourself up over it too badly (what's done is done), but learn from this also. I understand feeling humiliated and I'm sorry for that, but turn those feelings towards him, not yourself. HE took advantage of you and was selfish, that's it. You only made a mistake giving in, but you are no less of a person for it. If you an a future guy hit it off, there's nothing wrong with getting sexual that early, or even the first date, IF, you are both comfortable with it. But, you now know that if a guy is "begging" for it, then it's probably ALL he wants from you. No guy is going to "beg" if he's genuinely interested in you as a person. Especially if you've told him you're uncomfortable with it. If he cares and has any respect for you and thinks about you in any way (and not just himself), then he'll be fine with waiting until you're ready.

[Anonymous]

I think that was a little too quick to give him head. When girls would do that to me I start to think ok how many other dudes has she already done that w. May be hypocritical I know but those thoughts run through my head that she’s willing to give it up that easy so she’s on the back burner when I just want to get some.

[Laciandmaci]

Shows you are easy with no self respect and shows he is a jerk with no self respect as well! It taught you a lesson, unfortunately! That is why when I say no it is NO, NO MATTER WHAT!!!

[vald9inches]

I am sorry sweetheart i honestly don't understand guys these days. He is definitely a douchebag and is not worth your time to even think about for a second. He will never ever get a relationship with anyone in his whole life with that attitude. I have never ever done this to a girl nor will i ever i am not that immature and i would definitely respect and admire a girl even more if she was so kind to me.

[RedSauce]

Oh bless, you fell for the scam. At least you know now, it’ll help with your self respect and all that

[Asker]

It hasn't i feel worse than before. I already had low self esteem going into it.

[Asker]

I really wasn't asking for a life lesson from him. All i wanted was to love him

[RedSauce]

I can imagine you weren’t looking for a life lesson, nobody really is

[RealMarek]

He made a conquest and moved on. He is a jerk. It’s difficult to tell what a guy’s intentions are early in a relationship. Some guys lie. Begging like that is a bad sign.

[Shihab91]

learn the lesson instead of being sad. women shouldn't allow any sexual activity before 3 months if not until marriage.

[scott04sa22]

All the bastard wanted was a blowjob from you. That's it!

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Cleary you you shat in the wrong toilet. Shut the lid and forget it.

[Anonymous]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

you got played

But seriously that guy probably sucks anyway

[Anonymous]

good lesson. If every guy did this, girls have some respect about themselves

[Asker]

But why? doesn't that mean he didn't respect himself for letting me blow him?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course he is a shitty person. But he is doing good thing for the society. Girls should have the fear for the guys like them, then they will respect themselves more

[Anonymous]

next time don't go giving head. use your mouth for other things besides sucking some guy's dick

[Leavesbound]

Move on, He just wanted you to do that for him.

[AmeerX]

All I see is good men and women suffering

[dudeinohio]

That was just wrong.

[7771999]

That's terrible...