Is he just using me for nudes?

[Anonymous]

So this past spring this guy i started talking to this guy I liked over snapchat but after like two days he basically told me he really wished he could talk to me but he already was talking to someone else so I was like oh wow what a nice guy like won't even talk to two girls at once then he started snapping me again like 2 months later on my birthday and then stopped the next day. Oh and he and this girl are not talking anymore by the way... so then he starts snapping me againnn like a month ago and after awhile we are sending like nudes but not like totally nude but like sexy pics and then he stops talking to me again all the sudden after a long time of talking... then a week or two later he starts back up and told me he feels like a douche for stopping talking to me but he was having family problems at the time but he was super sorry so now he snaps me again but like he always only snaps at night... nudes aren't a nightly thing but like once or twice a week... also his friends say he doesn't really talk to girls ever so 🤷🏽‍♀️ does he actually like me or is he just using me for nudes? I don't know I might be okay with either but I don't know

[Anonymous]

You clearly seem to have a deeper attraction to him than he does for you, so keep in mind that this guy just wants your nudes! I've been "used" by a guy before after sending him many sexy pictures (I liked doing it, but I cared too much for him which was bad). So please don't get attached to him. Just have fun and use him as well for your own pleasure...

[baegirlbae18]

I think you're his second choice. I don't think he's using u for nudes though but yeah he is still using u.
don't let anyone make you their second choice.

[ZSean]

he might be to be honest. I would be careful sending so many nudes he may spread and show them to others

[kraft413]

using you