Why did my boyfriend follow a nude Snapchat of a girl he knew?

[Anonymous]

We had previously spoken about how wrong it was he agreed. Then did it a week later

I send him nudes all the time and he doesn’t really bother. He will occasionally be like holy shit amazing. He used to beg me for videos when we were apart.

I sent him this one video and he said he used it a couple of times and had it saved. But didn’t use it anymore cos he’d seen it.

When I asked why he followed he said “curiosity see what was posted” and he genuinely had no intention to do anything with the nude account.

Told me he looks at nude photos and it does nothing at all for him. He sees my nudes and it’s nice but does nothing just like others don’t.

He was so fed up of my nudes etc

He genuinely was just curious

He wanted to see with intentions

[Anonymous]

I'm anon because you are.
You chose the answers you did because you're looking for a specific reason or justification. There are other options.

He might not be interested in her at all, but why most women seem to think that a man stops looking at other hot women just because he's dating you? Here's a life lesson for all you women - men don't stop enjoying looking at, or being turned on by other beautiful women simply because they are dating, have a girlfriend, an S. O., or married.

Rare is the man who will never look at another woman's beauty no matter what his relationship status may be. This doesn't mean he'll act on it, but you better accept the fact that he doesn't suddenly go blind because he's with you.

[Asker]

There’s nothing wrong with looking everyone does that. But to go for a nude account is wrong. Is it because he isn’t happy with what I have? Or the sex?

[Opinion Owner]

Why is it wrong? It's still only looking. Yeah, that's another thing women don't get, or like if they do get it. It doesn't matter HOW hot you are, or how GOOD the sex is. Eventually, he'll just want someone else to look at or have sex with. Like I said, he may not act on the latter part, but men want something different, something new, some variety. It's the nature of the beast.

You asked "why" thinking that maybe it's something you're not giving him. I'm telling you that even if you're giving him everything and you have a great body and a beautiful face, the beast still wants variety. That's my opinion of "why" - it's the beast, not you.

[Anonymous]

if a guy is getting nudes and the woman is attractive of course he's going to jerk off to them don't be so fucking naive

[Asker]

He wasn’t getting them it was a promotion one so everything is blurred

[Opinion Owner]

so make up your mind was he or wasn't he getting nudes?

[Asker]

The account is a promotional one, he hasn’t asked for any or subscribed but she posted blurred pictures in it basically nude though

[Opinion Owner]

then that makes it even more pathetic

[Anonymous]

Maybe, maybe not. Did you ask him?

[Asker]

He said my body is his exact type and he really likes it. This girl does have similar to me. Her bum is way smaller than me but apparently hee a bum guy and wouldn’t be with me if I had a small bum..

[Opinion Owner]

He likes your body, why be insecure?

[Asker]

Why add this account

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know.

[Anonymous]

Its just nudes.

[Asker]

Explain that more to me cos that’s what he said. Does it mean my body wasn’t good enough? Does it mean sex with me isn’t good enough m?

[Batsy01010101]

pretty much

[Asker]

It means my body and sex wasn’t enough?

[Anonymous]

I say C.

[Asker]

Why would he do that when I often send him nudes etc?

[Opinion Owner]

Good question, I think you need to ask him.