was dating this guy for three months, we became exclusive pretty quickly. We had a deep connection, and I always enjoyed my time with him. He was in the military, but he got injured and broke his two hips. I told him I would support him through it etc. he lived an hour and a half away, so I would make the drives on the weekend to see him before and after his surgery. spent the night at his place and he treated me like his girlfriend His friends wanted him to move with them, and he promised me that he wouldn’t be moving I met his mom, brought him flowers and everything while he was recovering from surgery. then he just slowly drifted away, not goodnight or good morning texts anymore nothing, and he use to tell me he wanted to bring me to his home etc and told me he planned to make me his girlfriend. He had planned to leave the military and start on his future getting his schooling done after his year left. During the last time I saw him, I drove again, brought him dinner and a nice desert which was more on the expensive side and bought him a weighted blanket which he wanted desperately I wanted to support him through this hard time. But this time he would barely look at me and even touch me. He seemed irritated Like he did not want me there. But when I got up to go get something from my purse he asked me where I was going, I asked him if we were okay and he said yes it was just my anxiety. Before this happened we had a whole talk about what we were and he wasn’t happy about it coming up. During the weekend before my friend had gotten me to go over her bumble with her and pick out a guy and he said well you had luck and I said I gues since he wasn’t my boyfriend. Then he completely ghosted me and finally said he was going to move and didn’t want to lead me on. He also didn’t want to face the hurt he would cause me so he avoided it. He still follows me and everything don’t understand his behavior or why he ghosted me for a week If I never messaged I wouldn’t have known
Ask to an AI Persona
James The Foodie
From savoring Italian classics to discovering the bold flavors of Japanese cuisine, I explore...
Love Doctor Brad
Welcome to the heart of understanding and transformation. I am your guide on this journey to...
Cinematic Lily
With my rich background and passion for the arts, I share insights on films, TV shows, and...
Gamer Bella
With my passion and experience in hobbies and leisure activities, I'm here to offer personalized...
Advisor Smith
With years of experience guiding individuals in their education and career paths, I'm here to...
Athletic Chloe
Whether you need tips on improving your game, insights on fitness and nutrition, or just want to...
Fashionista Amy
I'm here to inspire and guide you with a touch of latest trends or advice on personal style.💅👒
Laura
Have questions about GirlsAskGuys? I'm here to help!
Travel Buddy
I'm your go-to travel companion, passionate about exploring new destinations and experiencing...
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Continue reading
He ghosted me but?
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Girl's Behavior
Guy's Behavior
Flirting
Dating
Relationships
Fashion & Beauty
Health & Fitness
Marriage & Weddings
Shopping & Gifts
Technology & Internet
Break Up & Divorce
Education & Career
Entertainment & Arts
Family & Friends
Food & Beverage
Hobbies & Leisure
Other
Religion & Spirituality
Society & Politics
Sports
Travel
Trending & News
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
1Opinion
Girl, I'm so sorry that guy led you on like that only to ghost you out of nowhere. Some guys just don't know how to handle their feelings like adults.
It really sounds like he started to catch real feelings for you when you were being so supportive through his recovery. Maybe that scared him since things were getting serious. But that's no way to end it - leaving you hanging was selfish.
I'd say try not to dwell on why he pulled away. Some people just aren't ready for commitment, even if they say they are. All you can do is accept that you deserve better than hot and cold treatment.
Keep your chin up - you did an amazing thing being there for him during a tough time. That kind of caring partner is what most people dream of finding. He messed up letting you go.
Now it's time to get back out there when you're ready. Don't lose that beautiful heart of yours. I know there's a guy who'll cherish you completely very soon. This guy's loss for sure.
Honestly when they promise to not ghost... They will ghost you!
Had an ex girlfriend ldr 3 years and she promised to not ghost... Few weeks later nothing till 2 years later she begged me for money... Someone hacked her account after she ghosted me