You're not wrong, but you fed the fire somewhat.
You were ignoring your intuition, even when it was obvious he didn't understand what you said.
I'm not a fan of ghosting regardless of the gender, but I understand in your situation.
That said, don't expect the same guy who didn't understand what you meant when you said, "take things slow" to understand being "ghosted". Going forward, your actions have to match your words.
Leave him the hell alone. You can't go the sexual harassment route, because you were responsive at least initially.
If he reaches out to you again, let him know that you will be sending a message/email, in that message/email you let him know that going forward, you're not interested in him beyond a professional relationship and that you felt uncomfortable.
You basically want to date/time stamp the moment you let him know that you two aren't trying anything anymore.
For legal purposes, better off doing this on company email, immediately save a copy of your email and his response if any - keep them. Better yet, BCC them to your personal email to keep a copy. Make a mental note of all CC cameras in the building that you frequent and make a point not to cross paths with him without being in range of those cameras.
Be safe and good luck.
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He is definitely a creep who didn't respect your boundaries. That being said, there are a couple of things you may want to reflect on. First is how you handled ending it with him. I understand he was a creep and you just wanted away from him, but perhaps you should have told him why you dropped him. Second, you may want to pause dating until you are more comfortable with the physical side. I get why you are avoiding it, but most guys don't want to be your friend.
O heeeeelll no. fk that shi, it's better that way to ghost him. He's a freak. If you gonna please me, you gonna need me to give you consent, pal. Otherwise, you might go to the hospital with a broken nose and knife cuts on your body.
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Reading this made me lose some brain cells. I am actually more surprised that you actually have a job.
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You should have ended it right there in the spot never having a conversation with him again
Yes, ghost that creep
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