Unless you plan on asking out guys in the 1840's, I doubt it'll be an issue- and even if it IS, a guy who goes out with you because he thinks you're desperate is still a guy foing eut with you; would be rather be highly-thought-of but alone?
No, you will not look desperate. The real meaning of being desperate is different.
On the contrary it will be very attractive to men if a woman takes the first step. Hence don't listen to such female friends of yours.
You are right. You should make the first move, whoever thinks it's desparate are probably desparate themselves
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If you are waiting for a guy to make the first move you'll be lonely for a long time
No, that's not true. I've known plenty of women who do things to look extremely desperate and they didn't approach the guy at all.
Desperate people will do desperate stuff eventually... they can't help it.
Your friends are 100% wrong.
