He bumped his 🍆into me?

[Anonymous]

So uhm yeah... a guy from work did it while i was washing my hands
Saying"boink"
We likw to joke and all but... uhm WTF

[boggboss]

So decide what ya want to do as in the work place that would come under sexual harassment

[Asker]

isn't it always verbal?

[dustybiker]

If you don’t like something speak up. Call him out. You don’t have to be rude back, just direct.

[Asker]

I dunno
Im embareassed

[dustybiker]

That’s the reaction he wanted. If you stood up to him it would have shocked the hell out of him. It’s very jr high school age behavior. Might say that.

[Asker]

What should i even say to him?

[dustybiker]

“Knock it off!” With feeling. Tone is the tell.

[jahaims]

He either is treating you like one of the guys and misread the situation or is pervy

[RobEurope]

Pretty sure thats a form of sexual assault/harrasment. Not acceptble.

[Asker]

Assault? omg

[Wise4myage]

That was no accident my friend, lol.

[Asker]

I know
But why? he did it into my butt

[Wise4myage]

He likes your ass and it felt good.

[Asker]

Lol we are coworker and friends
Is he joking
Or he wants me?

[Wise4myage]

He wants you.

[Asker]

So... he for For real want to F**k me?
Or he just being playful
Would you do that?
And if you did that would be a girl you like? your girlfriend? or a friend?

[Wise4myage]

Yes I’d say so. I might do that but only if I knew the girl well enough.