How do you stop being a simp?

[Anonymous]

Like for a girl you never met like YouTuber.
I watch all her videos and chat online flow all her social media. I get happy when I get response from her or hearted.
I donate my money.
I feel bad when they they complain about their life.

I often fantasy about a relationship of what it could be. I hug my body pillow at night and pretend its her.

I know its not healthy but it's kinda all I have

[Chris_7565]

Learn to find a healthy balance.
Having a celebrity crush and thinking she's hot is ok. Example.. Jennifer Lopez in my picture.
Donating money and following all their online posts is excessive and pathetic.
You have to understand that there's billions of women, and there's ones out there who are even hotter that you could actually meet and have a relationship with if you tried.
Celebrities are fun to fantasize about, but they're attention whores who have a million people kissing their asses. You'll never get that pussy so don't even waste your love on them. Find a different woman to shower with love and attention.

[Whatever2929292]

The only time that I defend someone is if I feel they are right. More often then not if I feel someone is wrong I will defend the other person but many times I stay out of it.

Maybe look for a real relationship I doubt the woman even knows you and has a lot of followers

[mermaidcancermoon]

By focusing on partners who give you just as much attention.

[Asker]

Never had a partner

[jshm2]

The first thing to know is: No, it's not "all you have" it's what you've lead yourself to believe.

There is little difference between you and a drug addict. You both waste money and health to your own detriment, and those around you. All while making the wrong people richer.

You need to get out your circle and network with better friends and people.

[Anonymous]

Do you want advice to make her your girlfriend?
It's not impossible...

But if you just want to stop your habit.. cut all contact. Get busy with your life. Stop feeding it and it'll starve.

[PatriceONeal]

You have an obsession AKA infatutation. It's unhealthy, but good you recognize it as simp behavior. Stop it ✋️