Does it seem like he is politely rejecting me and isn’t interested?

[anonbrunette99]

The voice note said “haha love? I think the correct response would but thanks but okay!

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Update: he came back, asked for my Snapchat spoken to me for a bit then asked for nudes and photos / videos calling me “baby” and stuff…. Interesting

[Whatever2929292]

I think he is wanting to be friends and yea... You could ask him the question directly what you are asking us. But it seems that yea just wanting to be friends. I don't think this pesron is really into this long distance thing.

Maybe as time goes on MAYBE but time will tell

[anonbrunette99]

I really like this one but I guess it wasn’t meant to be … looks like after i mentioned long distant he got scared off and became distant

[Whatever2929292]

Yea I am sorry to hear that. I get that it sucks. I say just leave him be because if you keep pressing the issue he might not even be so much as a friend

[Whatever2929292]

Asking for nudes... NOT a good sign I say just leave him be and say no

[anonbrunette99]

Yeah it’s weird cause he came back trying to get my Snapchat he sent me selfies then started asking for sex pics of me cause he “loves” looking at me … lmao

[Whatever2929292]

You tried you really did. He does not want anything meaningful just to use you

[Whatever2929292]

Yea that is really weird

[anonbrunette99]

Yea he’s looking for someone to use it’s sad I tried to change the topic and he ignored me he’s just not worth it, a player

[Whatever2929292]

Nope not worth it at all. You tried. There is better out there.

[Whatever2929292]

Just tell him that you wanted something meaningful and that you wanted a date or whatever. But then he took it too far. That you aren't just wanting someone to have sex with or send nude photos that you can never unsend

[Guy13]

Sounds like he is expressing interest asking about Whats Up...

[anonbrunette99]

Yeah he asked if I liked him but I’m sure it was pretty obvious lol

[Guy13]

Obvious would have been No on what’s up…stepping up within three feet of him… what’s your number (setting up contact and your name is Tiffany, right)… texting 😘. Then kissing other. It worked for me…less the what’s up app part

[boggboss]

Yes he dont like you the way you like him he is happy with friendship that much is pretty clear hun

[anonbrunette99]

It’s like I scared him off when I said long distance and then so, he was still curious to ask if I liked him probably to get it out of the way so I’d stop hinting around. I guess there’s plenty more fish in the sea

[boggboss]

Before I said long distance it was clear he didn't see it as anything more

[anonbrunette99]

How often do guys change their mind about these things?

[boggboss]

Like what he said I honestly would bet my left ball he ain't gonna change his mind

[anonbrunette99]

Why ask me if I like him though?

[boggboss]

Because he was making it clear friendship is all he wanted and you was still asking for more even when he was giving 1 word answers

[anonbrunette99]

I’ll move on to a guy that actually likes me it just sucks but can’t be everyone’s cup of tea huh

[boggboss]

Not thats it better to focus on someone thag likes you and wants to be with u then not

[boggboss]

Meh so what did u do

[anonbrunette99]

I told him he’s out of pocket asking me for nudes out of nowhere he apologised, I changed the subject, got a little convo out of him but it’s clear he only wanted nudes from me now so I just ignore him

[boggboss]

Fair enough

[Jamie05rhs]

I think maybe he meant to say "Haha, love."? But he left off the "love" so he added it on the next line?

He's still being pretty vague, though.

[anonbrunette99]

We hooked up it’s probably the only thing he wanted but I guess if he really didn’t like he would just ignore me. I guess he just sees me as a friend

[Jamie05rhs]

@anonbrunette99 You hooked up with him before this conversation happened? Or after?

[anonbrunette99]

A few days before

[Jamie05rhs]

Aw. That's sucks. Yeah, he doesn't want to date you. I'm sorry. :/

[anonbrunette99]

But he is now asking for nudes smh

[Jamie05rhs]

He's just using you. He's taking advantage of the fact that you're stuck on him.
He doesn't love you, and he's never going to want a real relationship.

[Guardian45]

I hate to say this to you, cuz you're sweet, but he AIN'T interested. Move on.

[anonbrunette99]

He ended up asking for my Snapchat asking for nudes and videos and calling me “baby” smh

[Guardian45]

So there's your answer. I'm sorry.

[Staximus]

Nevermind this online romance nonsense unless the person is only a 1 hour drive away or less

[roy_ricky09]

Lol... Looks like you made it so obvious with your msgs.

[Curiouslad123]

I think he might not be sure because of the long distance

[WhitneySnow]

He just wants to be friends

[WhitneySnow]

He might just want nudes (like an friends with benefits thing) or he might like you for real. Maybe you’re growing on him 😊.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nah, Whitney. She's not growing on him. He just wants to sext her because she's making it so convenient for him. He knows she likes him, so he wants to exploit that.

[WhitneySnow]

@Jamie05rhs yeah, you’re probably right. Thanks.

[anonbrunette99]

@Jamie05rhs I called him out and told him I feel used he apologised told me it isn’t like that and said we can talk after he gets off work about it

[WhitneySnow]

@anonbrunette99 that’s good. Maybe you guys can work things out. I still think he kinda likes you even if he did like the nudes too. It’s just the distance that’s holding him back.

[Crankor]

Doesn't really sound like he's keen on the idea

[Anonymous]

Have you sent nudes?

[anonbrunette99]

nil but now he’s asking

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like he's turned on by you then! That's good news!