Guys, what’s so attractive about girls’ waists?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Today my friend’s 22 years old guy friend and his 19 years old girlfriend visited us and we had some fun, a few drinks and they enjoyed being with us a lot. (In my country you can drink after 18)

I mostly talked with that 19 years old girl and didn’t pay too much attention to that guy. It was the first time I met them.

Before they left everyone hugged me and said goodbye, I was wearing a crop top, this guy came to me, pulled me close, hugged me really tight, kissed my cheek while and grabbed my waist while saying how happy he was to meet us. I was unsure if he did it instinctively or on purpose.

He was not creepy, and I know guys have a soft spot for waists, I was just a bit surprised cause I felt like that touch showed an obvious sign of attraction and I was really surprised why would a guy with his girlfriend in the same room touch another girl that way?

I felt a bit awkward and guilty around that girl.

[RavVid]

Hi LaFemmeFatale, We have a bit more than a soft spot for waists and a hardspot would be a more accurate description.

We have a genetic coding for waists! Long before we have seen the color of your eyes or even the size of your breasts we have marked you on your waist. From a distance we see you in plan view and it is the 2D view that is primary. Our genetic coding says a hip waist ratio of 0.6 to 0.65 is nubile and fertile and of course that engenders thoughts...

A girls waist is an inverse curve and we love curves. More importantly, as I like to say, if a girl has a sharp waist then everything else takes care of itself. Good waist = great hips and great breasts.

It is incredibly sexy how our hand fits right in there and quite simply that will make me hard. The cross section of a girls ribcage is ovoid. I find that incredibly sexy too but it is not as visually apparent like the waist and hips.

So why did he do what he did? Well you said you were wearing a crop top so he could see how nice your waist is and conceive a desire to see how well his handed fitted in. In other words he was copping a feel.

And masking it as a friendly goodbye. I think it was more on purpose because guys are quite attuned to boundaries with physical contact with girls. You said it was a tight embrace so I would say he wanted to feel your beasts against his chest as much as possible too.

Doing this as a friendly gesture gives it plausible deniability. If his girlfriend gave him gip he could say it was just a friendly hug goodbye and you hugged her friend goodbye. so whats the big deal?

I don't think you should feel guilty at all for his action. 10 to 1 he does similar when he meets you next. Maybe avoid by launching into some activity or just shake hands :)

[AverageGuy9037]

A nice waist to hip ratio is a sign of fertility and good genes in women. Ofc, most guys don't really know about that, they just unconsciously find a nice waist to hip ratio very attractive

Besides, when hugging a girl, grabbing her waist is a good way of controlling the distance during the hug. It also feels intimate for some people

[Stazz76]

The attraction comes from millions of years of animal instinct to find a mate which will provide the best possible outcome for your offspring.
1) Low body fat is a sign of good health, and that is a definite plus.
2) Waist:hip ratio of 0.7 has been celebrated by artists for millennia. It means there is more room for a baby to grow in the first place, and more room between the hips to give birth to large babies. Science has shown that the more 'fully cooked' a baby is before birth, the better the outcome in terms of both health and IQ, so this is a very desirable attribute to seek out in a mate.

Regarding your situation,
1) He's telling you very clearly he finds you sexually attractive.
2) The reason you feel awkward and guilty is because of an assumption that society expects monogamy from you and them. As his girlfriend was present, I can only guess that she wouldn't be offended by this gesture, maybe because they have an open relationship and he has no reason not to let you know, and maybe because she agrees with him and finds you sexually attractive too?

[EarthRealm]

You got Guilty
Your emotional mind says you like him and that causes you guilt and your conscience mind says you don’t which is the part of you that isn’t aware of the attraction because the guilt blocks out your awareness that you actually like him.
Think about him sexually don’t think about him in terms of Guilt but think of him sexually and masterbate to The thought of him and If you don’t get Turned on it’s cause your emotional mind is blocking you from being turned on
So when around him work on Getting turned on around him and if you manage to get turned on throughout all your efforts
Or at least 1 effort then it means I was right you do have an attraction towards him but your guilt blocks you from realizing the attraction.
Good luck on your endeavors

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope, I am not attracted to him and I am not interested.

It’s flattering that he went out of his way to show his attraction to me even in front of his girlfriend, but I was nit really attracted to him, I am in a long distance relationship with someone I love.

The reason I felt guilty was that I liked that girl, she was cute and I wouldn’t wish to take away her man’s attention from her.

[EarthRealm]

Clearly he likes you.
It would feel really nice if I Pulled a girl up to me like you said. You should use that to your advantage to fuck that 1 girl you like.
He likes you she might like you and not even know it.
Have that 3 some girl don’t worry about breaking them up it will only be a 1 time deal you have a Threesome

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

-_-

Sure! Good lick fantasizing about it, it’s never gonna happen.

First thing, there’s no way I’ll cheat on my boyfriend or even think about that!

2nd, I am not attracted to girls, I liked her personality because she was nice.

3rd Just because I feel flattered doesn’t mean I am attracted.

[EarthRealm]

Yah okay

[Hominem]

Il a répondu à votre manque de savoir vivre. Pis à votre violence latente et misandrie qui pue et suie le long des pores de votre peau, de l'indifférence avec laquelle vous l'avez accueilli et géré tout au long de ces moments passés ensemble. Vous êtes donc la seule responsable de cette situation. Ni lui, ni sa copine, ne peuvent être tenus responsable et coupable de quoi que se soit.
C'est misandrie, votre violence, votre arrogance et mépris dirigés vers les hommes, les garçons que vous ne contrôlez pas si bien qui vous a mise dans une telle situation.
Vous n'avez qu'à changer, évoluer. Peut-être vous faire psychiatriser à mort. Cela vous ferez sûrement du grand bien.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Bonjour

Thank you for sharing me your thoughts. I am not French so 😅

The only French word I know is - Bonjour

[IJhonnyI]

I mean everything on a female is attractive but I don't know, I think it was a little too much that he did, mostly the fact he has a girlfriend would barely hug a girl when I had my girlfriend seriously just cause I'm that guy but everyone is different

[WhitneySnow]

He thought you were hot and I guess he thought grabbing your waist was the best way to show it. But he def shouldn’t have done that if he had a girlfriend. Made you feel awkward.

[mwey3]

this is something complicated, even more so because they know each other at that moment and don't have any intimacy. but that only happened because of the boy's lack of sense

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he wants you to join them in a threesome? Is there any possible explanation that does not involve sex?

[sacrifices]

you need to go to Spanish countries lol

THIS IS COMPLETELY NORMAL

[wolfunknown]

Anything about a women's body is attractive. So is waist. It just is, there is no explanation.

[fonduegirl]

They'd touch you anywhere as long as you let them 🤷‍♂️

[Surely]

I would think that putting his hands on your waist or hips would be less sexual than him wrapping his arms around you and/or grabbing your butt !

[maximumpower]

you put it out there on display and then went out boozin'.
and you're surprised?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I didn’t drink that much, I drank one small glass of beer symbolically. I am not really into alcohol. On the contrary, I dislike drinking.

It was my friends who had a few drinks. I don’t really need alcohol to feel good.

[snowboarder720]

Just because a woman’s assets are ‘on display’ and having drinks doesn’t give men any permission to touch them though. Men like to over step boundaries and blame their own actions on inanimate objects like what the women were wearing.

[maximumpower]

@snowboarder720 please re-read my reply to the op.
does my reply state anything about her giving permission to do anything? i also did not state anything about it was correct or make an assumption about what the guy was thinking.

[snowboarder720]

I understand that you didn’t directly say any of that.
What you asked was “are you surprised?” like you were questioning her response as like it wasn’t anything new. What I’m saying this shouldn’t be an interaction to begin with. Making a smart assed question really is a rude thing to ask at the end of something that she feels a bit in secure about. I’d expect you to be mindful in the way you end your opinions if you are truly wanting to leave a meaningful response and not something so ignorant.

[maximumpower]

@snowboarder720 she dressed in a provocative manner and went out to a bar with a bunch of people who were drinking.
if you don't want a problem, you don't put yourself in a position to get one.
maybe you should be mindful of horning in on a conversation that doesn't concern you.
she wanted an answer, i gave her one. your input was neither invited nor appreciated.
please go away.

[snowboarder720]

That confirms my last comment. You believe that how women dress somehow means that they are asking for this to happen.
Maybe if you don’t leave immature opinions and be mindful about it nobody like me will jump in. Be mindful of what you say because even my 12 year old nephews know better. Didn’t your mom teach you better? If you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all. This is my business when you make it my business. This mindset is someone who never gets things their way so they blame hot women dress and never claim responsibility for their own actions. Grow up.

[snowboarder720]

This guy still has his mom serving him milk out of a sippy cup too.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I didn’t go to a bar… These people came to my home along with our mutual friends. I was wearing things I wear at home.

@snowboarder720 Thanks for thinking so.

[Bisonbreath420]

Because maybe he was more attracted to u or he or they wanted a or maybe that’s how he greets out of natural reaction or maybe he’s just a pig and don’t care about his girlfriend

[meh_days]

Either he doesn’t have the sense or they both need a third partner lol

[peedy]

That it is smaller than your hips giving you that sexy hour glass figure

[anylolone]

What's so attractive about guy's waist?
What's so interesting about the V?

[Shananapuddin]

I'm wondering the same thing, because I don't find the V attractive 🤣 for some reason, when I see a guy clenching his jaw and I see it moving, it's attractive to me

[anylolone]

@Shananapuddin I'm pressing X here frenetically.

Oh, the jaw thing is also common.

[24jack]

Don't know it just apoeaos to me. I think he was drunk and found you to be beautiful

[edward4play817]

What kind of fun did you guys have? I love a sexxxy waist to grab when I bend a girl over and spank that ass

[cootjuhh]

waists are just a fetish😋 they turn me on huge. soft erotic part of the female body

[Bklynbadboy12]

He just wanted you you know how it is when you have a few drinks

[insteadfew]

Isn't everything about girls body attractive anyway?

[Yellovv]

Girls are sexy when they get naughty in same room...

[serious]

Well it just appeals to men, it is turn on for us.

[FilmGuy93]

Waists are just very convenient places to grab

[Wise4myage]

How curvy they can be.

[dolemite89]

hips are sexy not your waist lol

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Lol yeah, I know.

But I’ve had many guys touch my waist and this one today, he kind of slid his hand below my top so he could touch my bare waist and then grabbed me tight. I thought it was a bit weird.

[Tstrbrainer]

I don't know, it's just sexy

[Roger56]

A sexy shape which I always to touch

[Intothevoid666]

What’s so attractive about a guys v cut waistline

[Texasgal95]

He loves my curves

[JohnK123]

Hourglass 😂

[Dinosaursandanime65]

So basically, yes