A guy you just met and talked to starts talking about marriage?

[Anonymous]

When a guy you just met and talked to, for an hour or so, starts talking about marriage and your future kids, once he realizes you're single. By the way this meeting was a coincidence, out of any dating context.

a red flag

a green flag

[LazerBean]

It depends on if he is specifically talking about marriage and kids with you, or about marriage and kids with his future wife whoever it may be. If it's the latter, then he is just communicating what he wants out of life to see if you are on the same page as him.

[Asker]

More like he talked about his plans for the future then asked about mine when i will get married, i answered in general but he nodded and mumbled 'hope so for our kids' or sthg like that... what does this mean?

[LazerBean]

Hard to tell without more context about what you said exactly.

[ReasonCalm]

Finally an honest man talking about what he wants and his future plans now it's a red flag lol the world is doomed!

[IsoUser]

With a girl or guy you just met talking about marriage that would kind of concern me and not in a good way Lol

[MattSmall]

Outside of a date and unprompted, it's a red flag. If you brought up the subject it's not SO bad, but if he's just bringing it up out of the blue it's definitely a red flag. He's the kind of guy to fall for literally anything and that's never good.

[spartan55]

The fact that you don't know this is a huge red 🚩 flag is just astounding.

[Staximus]

Was he talking about what he wants in the future or what he wants with you in the future?

[Guy13]

Lucky you.., at least he has a plan…

[Anonymous]

You should run like hell at that point.

[Asker]

Why? I mean i feel i should but i dont get why, can you please explain?

[driven159]

just putting feelers out to see what you would say

[Anonymous]

That's most definitely a red flag.

[Avicenna]

Whoa, that’s crazy