Is it red flag if a guy is talking about marriage after one month of being friends?

[Anonymous]

So this guy I just met a month ago. We are not even dating irl just started talking about getting married and being my fiance like I just met you a month ago. Why would I do that?

[Summeroflove]

Rushing a relationship is a red flag that either they got attached too fast or they’re not being genuine. Think of it as a used care salesperson. Trying to rush you with a deal that sounds too good to be true and sign the dotted line. Sign before you ask too many questions, before you think logically, before your intuition kicks in, before you can read the fine print, etc. Because it is too good to be true. That’s why they’re rushing to lock you down.

People when they really wanna lock someone down want to do so before you can see their true colors.

But even if he isn’t nefarious. It shows he has attachment issues and has probably projected a fantasy onto you nonetheless and people can become extremely resentful when they find out. That…. They built a false persona of you in their heads.

[slatyb]

HUGE RED FLAG. Don't consider dating him. He's desperate for a girlfriend and will profess love to any woman who gives him the slightest attention.

[Zionne]

no? some guys know who they want to marry the first time he sees the girl

[Asker]

Really?

[Asker]

Do they just feel it?

[slatyb]

Occasionally this happens, but the asker did not indicate that they were highly compatible, only that he was unexpectedly enthusiastic for no discernable reason.

[DishLady]

Depends on how well you know each other.

[Alex-Snow]

Kinda weird if u are not even dating or met each others families or even had sex yet. Red flag to me!

[Asker]

Yeah like wtf is he talking about? Crazy lol

[Alex-Snow]

I know... do you think he is just in in for sex or money?

[Asker]

No he's gonna use me. He said he will bring me over to USA. He said he wanted me to study as nurse in University of Utah after I got a job I will help him pay tuition of his engineering degree. Like I will repay him of bringing me over to USA but I just like the idea of studying not living with someone I just met a month ago. Lol

[Asker]

And Im not rich. He doesn't have a job right now. Like he's living in a camper.

[Alex-Snow]

Dump him

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. It depends on the context.

[Anonymous]

Yes it is.