I’m not sure about scientific evidence, but our society is still adjusting in some ways to people covering up so much for so long. I mean just last century it was way out of the norm for the better half for women to wear skirts that showed knees. Think about that, and many of those people are still alive and trying to run things. It takes society time to adjust. Understanding history makes a lot of the present mysteries more clear.
To be a decent lady, you shouldn't be showing a lot of skin, if you're feeling hot, you can always wear a decent summer outfit, but to walk in public semi nude or wearing barely something is undecent and i'd look down on you and consider you a cheap girl...
@StormMistress Of course attention is not the only reason. You can get a lot of attention in a long sleeve, full length, very tight fitting red dress and high heel. However, for the summer time, that is neither cool nor comfortable so naturally you would rather wear something cool and comfortable.
Well I have some clothes that I think are cute and I’m not worried about if someone else thinks their cute so can’t agree with you on that one. I just like what I like, it’s really not that complex.
If you think it is a comfort thing and don't have a problem wearing those clothes, then why bring it up? It makes it sound like you want attention from it. Does what others think matter to you?
Because it often seems like that since there are girls that show of a lot of their body and then it happens that we connect both experiences meaning we think what fits for them fits for her as well.
they're just douches stuck in the 1950s. crop tops are my preferred top of choice. no one will change my mind or make me change. sorry but i look good. and i'm not here to look good for you, i'm here to look good for me and to feel comfortable.
A related question: Knowing that showing more skin gets this kind of attention from guys, should you consider different fashion decisions? At some point, you choose the attention.
I don't think guys necessarily think that some girls show a lot of skin this because it makes them feel like they are who they are you know like I said I think this yeah maybe a little hung up about it or or insecure themselves but I myself I think girl showing a lot of skin is great yeah I had my my girlfriend do you know she shows as much as she likes
Well the less you have on there’s more to see for a guy or girl 🤭😂 but you should understand that. It’s like I can’t get mad when I’m standing in-line at the grocery store and ppls eyes are locked on me because I have tattoos all over me. I practically asking for the attention. Though I got tattoos because I like them. Hope it makes sense 😂
It's because we see women wearing that same kind of thing when they want to be flirty on dates. Also, every woman is different, so you're wearing that stuff to be comfortable, but we know other women are wearing it to get attention.
I don’t think all guys think that but most girls who show off more skin do do it for attention even if it’s subconscious. I mean women will put on a full face of makeup and pretend it’s not to get more male attention.
Mmmh depends… women wear make up and nice clothes to feel better about themselves, we just want to look beautiful and sexy, to look good basically, unconsciously following modern beauty standards and trends. Many trends involve showing more skin and being sexy. It’s obvious when you look at groups of girls they all dress pretty much the same following insta trends, mini tops skirts etc.
I mean women showing more skin does attract more men it’s not necessarily or attract men but it does attracted more men because we’re guys and we like skin
I don't agree with women doing it for attention but... Lol @KrakenAttakin is right. As with everything in life it's a conditional sport we play this game of life 😅
Well said! It's not a secret anymore that women try to get the attention/validation from the men they are interested in. but when getting it from the ones who they aren't, they would feel insulted or even go as far as calling it sexual harassment
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I’m not sure about scientific evidence, but our society is still adjusting in some ways to people covering up so much for so long. I mean just last century it was way out of the norm for the better half for women to wear skirts that showed knees. Think about that, and many of those people are still alive and trying to run things. It takes society time to adjust. Understanding history makes a lot of the present mysteries more clear.
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To be a decent lady, you shouldn't be showing a lot of skin, if you're feeling hot, you can always wear a decent summer outfit, but to walk in public semi nude or wearing barely something is undecent and i'd look down on you and consider you a cheap girl...
Exactly!
Cause assuming is easy and almost unpreventable I guess
I'm suspect you wear skimpy and sexy clothes not just skimpy clothes. Because, like most young women, you like attention.
Or maybe… just maybe… we like the clothes lol? 😂
@gabbydoll14 No girl likes clothes unless she believes other people like them and she believes it makes her look good.
Look I’ll admit I do enjoy attention. I’m not secret about that. But it’s not the only reason I dress less when out on Summer you know.
@StormMistress Of course attention is not the only reason. You can get a lot of attention in a long sleeve, full length, very tight fitting red dress and high heel. However, for the summer time, that is neither cool nor comfortable so naturally you would rather wear something cool and comfortable.
Well I have some clothes that I think are cute and I’m not worried about if someone else thinks their cute so can’t agree with you on that one. I just like what I like, it’s really not that complex.
If you think it is a comfort thing and don't have a problem wearing those clothes, then why bring it up? It makes it sound like you want attention from it. Does what others think matter to you?
Because it often seems like that since there are girls that show of a lot of their body and then it happens that we connect both experiences meaning we think what fits for them fits for her as well.
they're just douches stuck in the 1950s. crop tops are my preferred top of choice. no one will change my mind or make me change. sorry but i look good. and i'm not here to look good for you, i'm here to look good for me and to feel comfortable.
Cuz they thirsty and want to believe we are signaling that we are DTF xD.
We get hot too guys. Im not gonna wear a parka when its 90 out so you guys dont get all horny
can I dm you for some advice?
A related question: Knowing that showing more skin gets this kind of attention from guys, should you consider different fashion decisions? At some point, you choose the attention.
I don't think guys necessarily think that some girls show a lot of skin this because it makes them feel like they are who they are you know like I said I think this yeah maybe a little hung up about it or or insecure themselves but I myself I think girl showing a lot of skin is great yeah I had my my girlfriend do you know she shows as much as she likes
Well the less you have on there’s more to see for a guy or girl 🤭😂 but you should understand that. It’s like I can’t get mad when I’m standing in-line at the grocery store and ppls eyes are locked on me because I have tattoos all over me. I practically asking for the attention. Though I got tattoos because I like them. Hope it makes sense 😂
We are meant for pleasure of men. Don't you know that? Whatever we do is sexualized. Even our farts and poop 😅
It's because we see women wearing that same kind of thing when they want to be flirty on dates. Also, every woman is different, so you're wearing that stuff to be comfortable, but we know other women are wearing it to get attention.
I live in Australia - I don’t assume it’s attention seeking, but I’ll enjoy the aesthetics
I don’t think all guys think that but most girls who show off more skin do do it for attention even if it’s subconscious. I mean women will put on a full face of makeup and pretend it’s not to get more male attention.
Mmmh depends… women wear make up and nice clothes to feel better about themselves, we just want to look beautiful and sexy, to look good basically, unconsciously following modern beauty standards and trends. Many trends involve showing more skin and being sexy. It’s obvious when you look at groups of girls they all dress pretty much the same following insta trends, mini tops skirts etc.
I mean women showing more skin does attract more men it’s not necessarily or attract men but it does attracted more men because we’re guys and we like skin
Because men think that everything is done for them and them only... nope sweeties it's not for you☺️
Not all guys think that
@Bklynbadboy12 i know😊
Girls do that to me too. The less clothes the healthier, I do it for my health and yet girls get uncomfortable seeing me naked.
I agree, in hot weather wearing breathable clothes is common sense. Duh.
What gets me is when women show some skin then complain from unwanted attention 🤣
@Hairylegs222. Women only complain when non-Chads give them attention.
Poor KrakenAttackin. LMAO
@KrakenAttackin Are you ok love?
I don't agree with women doing it for attention but... Lol
@KrakenAttakin is right.
As with everything in life it's a conditional sport we play this game of life 😅
@KrakenAttackin @Hairylegs222 @kastra
Well said! It's not a secret anymore that women try to get the attention/validation from the men they are interested in. but when getting it from the ones who they aren't, they would feel insulted or even go as far as calling it sexual harassment
@TruthBringer hath Brung tha truth
@TruthBringer Exactly right.