So there was a guy I was fucking on & off for 2 years, & I was sleeping with him knowing he was single. He would always tell me he was single & I genuinely felt like he was single too because of how he only seemed to want to have sex & nothing else. I never thought he was in a relationship cause he seemed like he wasn’t interested in one. He just seemed like the type that was single & playing around with multiple girls.
That’s what I thought until he started telling me that he ‘loved’ me, ‘had feelings’ for me & ‘wanted to date’ me. But then I quickly figured out that he was lying & manipulating me when his actions didn’t match his words. He then admitted after 2 years that he just wants to have sex & cause I liked him I just agreed to it even though I wanted more.
I was seeing him up until the start of this year, but then he stopped contacting me for 2 months & so did I. His Instagram was also deactivated for the last 6 months so I didn’t know what was happening. He finally Reactivated his Instagram 2 weeks ago & I saw that he has someone’s initials in his insta bio with a love heart, & I did a bit of stalking/research & figured out who the girlfriend is. It looks like she was actually his girlfriend this whole time & he was hiding her. Before he never had anything about her on his public Instagram bio, it was always blank.
So now I’m starting to wander - if he has been with her this whole time, why has he only suddenly decided to display her more now after that long? & if he’s so proud of being with her & loves her, then why was he cheating on her this whole time?
& what made him suddenly want to stop cheating on her these past 2 months? Did he just suddenly start loving her more these past 2 months? Or could he still be cheating on her? It almost feels like he’s intentionally doing this to rub it in my face & show me he has a girlfriend & that I was a joke to him this whole time. But then realistically he probably hasn’t even been thinking about me.
That’s what I thought until he started telling me that he ‘loved’ me, ‘had feelings’ for me & ‘wanted to date’ me. But then I quickly figured out that he was lying & manipulating me when his actions didn’t match his words. He then admitted after 2 years that he just wants to have sex & cause I liked him I just agreed to it even though I wanted more.
I was seeing him up until the start of this year, but then he stopped contacting me for 2 months & so did I. His Instagram was also deactivated for the last 6 months so I didn’t know what was happening. He finally Reactivated his Instagram 2 weeks ago & I saw that he has someone’s initials in his insta bio with a love heart, & I did a bit of stalking/research & figured out who the girlfriend is. It looks like she was actually his girlfriend this whole time & he was hiding her. Before he never had anything about her on his public Instagram bio, it was always blank.
So now I’m starting to wander - if he has been with her this whole time, why has he only suddenly decided to display her more now after that long? & if he’s so proud of being with her & loves her, then why was he cheating on her this whole time?
& what made him suddenly want to stop cheating on her these past 2 months? Did he just suddenly start loving her more these past 2 months? Or could he still be cheating on her? It almost feels like he’s intentionally doing this to rub it in my face & show me he has a girlfriend & that I was a joke to him this whole time. But then realistically he probably hasn’t even been thinking about me.
