How would you feel if your crush is posting pics with a skinner girl than you and her ass in a bikini?

[Anonymous]

we hooked up once and he friendzoned me, and just wanted nudes from me so I deleted him and he never cared or reached out again

in that video he was WAAAAY more touchy with her than he was with me when we hung out she’s very attractive she had a boyfriend so they where just friends but given the nature of the photo i’d very much so guess she’s single or dating him now. Is it normal I feel VERY insecure and almost wonder if he rejected me because he likes her or thinks she’s better

[CrazyGirl2]

First, you should have made sure you were in a relationship with him before you had sex with him. BUT… you didn’t get pregnant, and hopefully you didn’t get any STI’s (STD’s), so overall this was a very inexpensive lesson for you. But you definitely need to stop calling this guy your crush, he CLEARLY has no interest in you! He DID have AN interest in you, but you gave that away before you established any relationship!
live and learn, that’s all you can do. And next time you like a guy and he clearly likes you, maybe try going on three dates BEFORE you hook-up! You need to get a guy to care about YOU before you let him into your panties.

[summiter]

Don't overthink it. He just may have not wanted to be tied down or maybe he just likes to hookup with other girls. How was the sex with him? Maybe it is better that you moved on?

[SiberFox]

Your mistake was not establishing a relationship before having sex with him. He got what he wanted out of you, he had no reason to stay, all you saw was his next target.

[Asker]

tbh I hoped the night we spent dancing holding hands displaying PDA cuddling before the initial hook up was enough for him to develop feelings. I unfollowed him but he kept me on his page for a while now, he wasn’t even from my city just visiting I guess to him it was a fling with travelling and now he’s hanging out with his regular “friends” or girls he attempts to get with

[Asker]

I guess men are not like woman. Spending time together doing those things isn’t gonna get him to catch feelings is it

[SiberFox]

It's not enough, he had lust for you, for it to develop into love requires more work. Some guys it will happen to, but very few.