I have e gym crush?

Question

I like this guy that goes to the same gym as I do but i don’t know how to make him pay me attention. At first I thought that he finds me attractive because we looked at each other a few times but after that he hasn’t done anything like try and talk to me. now I even feel like he doesn’t want take a glance at me, Cus he was avoiding looking the whole time I was doing an exercise right next to him. I really like him, but I don’t wanna be the one that starts the convo and at the same time I don’t wanna look too easy if I stretch or smth near him or do the same exercises as him. Help plsssss

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

Use your words and talk to him.

It's polite for him not to stare and he's trying to be respectful. Unless you've TOLD him in no uncertain words that you're interested in him, you're just another girl at his gym trying to workout in peace.

The gym is not a place where most people go to get dates. It is an expensive adult playground to move wildly and throw around heavy things in the pursuit of physical culture.

But if you TELL him you think he's cute and you're wondering if he'd like to get a coffee after your workouts are done, he'll know you're open to a date.

So.
Use your words. Otherwise you're just being a creepy female gym stalker.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

I think he likes you. That’s why he’s avoiding looking at you. Try talking to him and see if he responds.

ThoseCognacEyes · Accepted Answer

You can just say hi to him and compliment his shoes (given he’s not wearing flip flops or clogs or some shit like that). It’s okay, women can make the first move sometimes. Trust me, if he likes you back, this would be the best day he’s had in a long time. If he doesn’t, then at least you tried! What’s the worst that can happen?