I’ve been told so many times that I’m a mellow person. Every time I get those comments (mainly from other women), they come with a judgmental look and the typical question of “how do you survive?” as if it’s something bad. It has led me to think that maybe my mellow “personality” is perceived as bad. So guys, is being mellow unattractive to you? If so, why?

Well, it looks like it's mutually exclusive with willpower or overall strength of your personality, so yes, it's unattractive.

That's exactly what I'm looking for, girls my age are usually mad into parties and chaos, and I've already had my share and want a stable life.

To me when you say mellow. I'm having a good day and I just had pot. I do like a calm woman. Her temperament is nice.

No, I find that attractive. Some women can be combative, mean, and snap at you too easily. Guys don't want to live with that.

I much prefer a mellow person than a chaotic person that adores drama.

I see a mellow woman as friend material because she has a relaxing demeanor.

if u read my user i like all women accept goth

No any women who like kissing women is attractive to me

Honestly, I don’t know what a mellow person is lol.

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Xper 1 Age: 24

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Well, it looks like it's mutually exclusive with willpower or overall strength of your personality, so yes, it's unattractive.

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That's exactly what I'm looking for, girls my age are usually mad into parties and chaos, and I've already had my share and want a stable life.

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To me when you say mellow. I'm having a good day and I just had pot. I do like a calm woman. Her temperament is nice.

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No, I find that attractive. Some women can be combative, mean, and snap at you too easily. Guys don't want to live with that.

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I much prefer a mellow person than a chaotic person that adores drama.

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I see a mellow woman as friend material because she has a relaxing demeanor.

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if u read my user i like all women accept goth

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Yuuibtony Follow
Xper 7 Age: 31

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No any women who like kissing women is attractive to me

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Skyros Follow
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Honestly, I don’t know what a mellow person is lol.

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Lynx122 Follow
Master Age: 36 , mho 32%

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It's not a bad thing :)

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Gent207 Follow
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Define mellow? Non-dramatic? Not mean?

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Stoner710 Follow
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No there cute

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Mr1derful Follow
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Not unattractive at all!

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FilmGuy93 Follow
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Sounds attractive to me.

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FunkyMonkee Follow
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Nope. I'd love to have one.

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Dargil Follow
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Not to me she doesn't.

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exitseven Follow
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mellow is okay. Lackadaisical is not.

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I love you already. Wanna marry me?

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Exterminatore Follow
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Yeah. We love drama and excessive emoting.

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tiajoka Follow
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"Pick me!!"

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- ronaldo75
  
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  Hahahaha Someone's mad the cute chill girl got picked over their loud obnoxious hallow tantrums and bitchy attitude?
  
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- tiajoka
  
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  @ronaldo75 naw, I'm not mad these kinda people exist. It's just like, it's pretty obviously attractive. 🤣 are you retarded or something?
  
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- ronaldo75
  
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  Are you ableist? wow you're getting reported.
  
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- tiajoka
  
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  @ronaldo75 k bbg
  
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Rockstarrrrr Follow
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No offense but I find them so unattractive

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Blueeyes81 Follow
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Not in the slightest.

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Xper 6 Age: 33

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Sometimes a down to earth lady is needed.

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Guanfei Follow
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Nope, that would be a match for me.

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Sounds like a good thing to me

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The mellow one's are more confident

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They call me Mellow Yellow (quite rightly).

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My motto is boring is best.

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Mellow is one thing, dull is another.

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I don't mind it at all!

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No, hyper ones aren't bueno

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I like my women unhinged and abusive

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Jouth Follow
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mellow is good

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Anonymous
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No, not at all. I think I would really like that.

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Pegases Follow
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Not at all.

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Xper 3 Age: 35

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men like peace
women do not

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Any coin have two sides

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No. For me not at all

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Beerluvr Follow
Xper 5 Age: 25

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Mellow is cool as long as she isn’t boring

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Why would she be unattractive?

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Nah, I prefer it.

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The opposite

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No not me

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Yes they are

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