How long does it take you to realise you want a relationship?

Sebby84

Ok this is long so sorry but im lost atm with where we are or going if anywhere…. iv been seeing a guy for about 4 months now i have a 2 year old and going through divorce so have my own place and a single parent.. This guy has been single for quite a while and is always a busy guy at weekends plays golf and darts and just generally has a lot of friends always has something or other on and its been that way since we 1st started talking. So we have never been on a date we see each other once or twice a week just whatever way things work out with schedules. We get on great we have the best laugh together have great sex and i didn't give that up right away either I held out and he's hung with me and while he's been ill and iv had my period. He's quite affectionate with me hand holding snuggles and all that he contacts me as regularly now as he did in the beginning before we met very consistent but im just like is he ever going to girlfriend me up?

Would he still be around after this long if it wasn't on the cards….. i know i could ask however im the 1 with the baggage and don't want to scare him off.

And im not living my life by this but a fortune teller who was excellent had my life my situation and described him to a T told me it would take time and if i asked i would actually scare him off if it wasn't for that I probably would ask him where this is going but im very hesitant now.

Any thoughts on this 1…stick with it and be patient or not?

How long does it take you to realise you want a relationship?
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