How long does it take you to know you want someone?

[DishLady]

I know I want someone right away. Badly.

It takes me a few days/weeks to warm up to a person before I know I want them.

[aaron13547]

For me knowing I want someone isn't the problem. The problem is knowing I will still want them around tomorrow. It's easy for me to like someone even to fall in love its hard for me to show my shortcoming and be vulnerable. Happiness and positivity is easy for me getting through the hard thing still caring for and loving that person the same that's much harder. I don't like being let down no one does so when I know I want someone it takes me much more time to convince myself they are worth me letting myself want them... how long it takes me to know they're worth taking a chance on letting my walls down that's the hard part.

[aaron13547]

Thanks for the mho. I'm curious to know how you would answer this question thou?

[ohsheeT]

It could happen the moment we say hi. Or look in to each other's eyes


Because the moment that happens im fgoingbto feel you and you me. And we would both feel it right then and there. And every day after would tell us everything but if we felt it the first day we would all ready know. Or at least I would

[HawkPerception]

A very short time. I'd like to think of myself as pretty good at reading people to an extent and whether they match me or not. Obviously though, you can't tell everything about a person at first glance or even after a few conversations. Some things, you're bound to figure out about people only after a lot of time being with them. Those are generally the traits or aspects that can make or break a relationship.

[Spencer10]

Thats a time question... and like Einstein theorized its relative. Relative to sooooo many things. A person can capture my interest immediately with one short well timed quip or months later after interacting with them over a extended period. Then again it can be effected by the Lulu effect as well...

[SixFootSexy]

Physically? Immediately, or within about 30 seconds.

Personality? After about 10-20 conversations.

[worldscolide]

I'm a special case, it took me nearly dying lol.

[DishLady]

Well... thank God she's a smart gal.

[worldscolide]

Agreed.. She's definitely smarter than me

[exitseven]

I do not waste much time.