I feel like im very deep and most men can't handle it? But I need a husband but I thinktheyre all scared wen they feel my depth?

[Anonymous]

[Robert159]

It may be that they don't want you to shine brighter than themselves as society in the past and even into the present has taught men to be thinkers and providers as well as to be the one to do for their partner and family it has a different impact on men in general if the lady is able to do or think or even provide better than they can it's really more of an ego thing for a lot of men

[Asker]

I dont want any man who ain't gonna provide 100% i could be alone. No need for a man who isn't willing to be the traditional man... for me. So hopefully being a deep person in other ways like emotionally or a deep thinker isn't whats tuning them off.

[Robert159]

Possible not it was just a thought something to ponder on

[markml]

What makes you deep? And why do you think men can't handle it?

[FilmGuy93]

Can you clarify what you mean by "depth?"

[Asker]

Wow... no

[FilmGuy93]

Ah. So you meant that kind of depth. I wasn't sure if you meant spiritual depth.

[Asker]

What

[FilmGuy93]

Sometimes people will describe someone as a "deep person" when they are extremely introspective and focus on complex spiritual thoughts. When you said that men can't handle your depth, I thought that you might have meant that you tend to talk about heavy subjects and that scares men off because they would rather talk about trivial things.

[Asker]

I dont talk to shallow people about deep stuff. I am very quiet. Most people around are assholes and/or shallow people.

[FilmGuy93]

Yup... but that's why I asked about what you meant by "I feel like I'm very deep." Because if you like to talk about spiritual and intellectual things and you aren't around people who also like to talk about those things; that would make it tough to want to marry anyone.

[Asker]

Are they scared of the depth? I mean i think they can feel it even though i dont talk 'deeply' to them. I feel like some times they can feel it. Their energy shifts a bit I don't know. I mean i dont need a man to be deep as me. im already that person. I dont need to sate myself. But i need to be appreciated. And if guys are scared of me theyre not gonna ask me out etc etc. Just wanna know the effect im having on men.

[FilmGuy93]

I could see that intensity being intimidating to someone if they weren't expecting it.

[Asker]

Maybe thats the word. Intense LMAO. Im a little crazy too so i can't act like i have it all together. Thats why i need a good man.

[FilmGuy93]

the word "depth" is fine lmao you just can't not explain what you mean when you post on a website like this.

[Staximus]

What are you, the Mariana Trench?

[Waldoe]

so, be less agressive...

[Ithink_igoodperson]

what is your deep means?

[Birdlegs]

Depth as in?