He's texting a girl?

[Anonymous]

For the last 1 hour, my boyfriend has been on and off on whatsapp. He opens it, stays on it for 1 or 2 mins then go. This has been going on for almost an hour. He opened the app at 2.30 even though I had sent him a few messages. Replied to me and was gone until he came online at 15 50 and since then has been on and off.

His timestamp has been 1 or 2 minutes apart since the last one hour.

Is he texting a girl?

[humanearth]

You bet he is, if it was another dude. He wouldn't care if you saw what he is typing. As a matter a fact, he might even show you.

But another same in the picture. You bet he is going to keep that on the down low and try not to get busted.

[JakeS00]

Maybe you ask him about that you've (he) been slacking on the relying. I wouldn't assume something like "is he texting a girl?"

[Asker]

But why he's so online?

[JakeS00]

Because it happens? Sometimes it takes a while to appear you offline if you aren't on your phone.

[Asker]

Hevwas constantly coming online every 1 or 2 mins

[JakeS00]

Ahh, okay. I guess he has friends. But it seems rude of him to take that long to reply each time.

[JakeS00]

He's showing by the looks of it, that he's not attentive to you.

[ChrisMike1919]

I don't know why you consider that freak being your boyfriend, it obvious he can't stay with one girl and have a relationship.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[ChrisMike1919]

Well you said that you've seen him with other girl back in the day. So you know he's unfaithful.

[boggboss]

How could gag tell u that

[Asker]

Just by the frequent online? What do you think?

[boggboss]

That he might have a friends group he is in and talking to why is your first assumption cheating

[Asker]

Because why would he be online so much? On some days he's gone for a whole day or evening and then such rampant texting?

[boggboss]

Because today his friends group is popping off u instantly assuming cheating shows this relationship is doomed

[Asker]

We are on and off and aren't serious so tell me why he will be constantly online? He's obviously sexting

[boggboss]

You have brain damage if u think its sextile g with no proof

[boggboss]

I have already given u a fully realistic reason if u are too insecure to believe its anything but sexting thats on u

[Asker]

He's done that before in March and that time I saw him meeting a gurl at a bar in late feb

[Asker]

He's done that before in March and that time I saw him meeting a gurl at a bar in late feb. We weren't dating that time but in mid March he was crazy online like this

[boggboss]

So if he has a history of doing this why do u need to ask

[Asker]

Now what do you thinkMm

[boggboss]

Thats its possible he is talking to a girl if he has a history of doing so

[Asker]

Every few weeks his whatsapp activity goes up and he starts disappearing for long hours. Then all of a sudden it goes down.
He also starts coming often to see me and when he's seeing other girls , he stops coming to see me completely

[boggboss]

Yet u accept this so whats your issue?

[Asker]

I want him to forget about us but he won't

[boggboss]

How about u do that if your the one that gets hurt

[Asker]

I dont want to because if I do, he will think he got me bothered. I dont want to show his actions bother me and that has worked till now because he gets annoyed

[boggboss]

Lol so your playing childish games and getting hurt to save face nice I guess I see how u picked up a guy like this in the first place

[Asker]

Yes because why would I want to give him the satisfaction that he bothered me.

[boggboss]

For your own wellbeing and mental health maybe I'm seeing childish games mean more to you then your own happiness

[boggboss]

Instead of moving on and actually being happy you are asking strangers online why your cheating on off partner is cheating 😑 do u not see how brain damage that is

[Anonymous]

You need to ask him honey.

[Asker]

As if he will tell me he's texting a girl

[Opinion Owner]

Then pose as another girl.

[In_Trance]

Yeah