How do I get my husband to want to be with me again?

[Anonymous]

Long story short I feel like my husband disconnected from our married emotionally over the last few months. I want to go back to the old times when we were so in love and he wanted to be with me. He won’t do marriage counseling and when I ask him questions he tells me nothing is wrong. He also says he doesn’t care.

[bamesjond0069]

1. Are you still attractive to him? Physically and how you behave? Ie not a nag

2. Did you do something wrong to him?

Those are my first two thoughts.

[Asker]

I have started fixing my physical appearance more. And kinda was a nag..

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah so basically he doesn't want to spend time with you and when he's horny he probably prefers to masterbate... common sense should explain the rest.

[Guy13]

How about start doing the things you used when you dated... first fell in love?

[Goldrush880]

Geez man get a life