How can I make my husband love me again?

[dutchess1998]

My husband fell out of love. Is it still possible he will love me again?

[crystalline0909]

Yes. Start focusing on yourself. Maintaining yourself. Prioritising yourself. If he is too used to you being constantly there for him and he finds you doing better, shining, like a star, refined, he will come back to explore "what is this change about. She looks different, prettier, energized, she is socializing and shining out there looking like a star among there's. She stands out among other girls. She seems so confident that spotlight naturally lands on her. I must secure her she is my wife." This kind of chemical reaction would happen. Eventually not instantly. Just work on yourself, go out, enjoy with friends. Loo your best. Maintain yourself. Let him see your worth. Make sure when he comes around, he has to know you all over again. That you are not just how he knows you.

[dutchess1998]

I love this comment thank you ❤️ I'll do my best

[BoopBoopBeep]

Mmmm... no... as a man I can say that if I've lost interest in you for whatever reason, pulling further away in the relationship sure as hell isn't going to get me interested in you again, it'll just speed me to whomever your replacement is. If she let herself go the past two years and now every time she goes out with her friends she "looks different, prettier, energized" then I'm just going to assume you're seeing someone else and I'll do the same. The two of them need to sit down and have an honest (and probably painful) talk about why the magic has left.

[crystalline0909]

It's not about man or woman. They are in a legal marriage not just randomly dating. In that marriage they could have invested in each other's life making them dependent on each other to function smoothly in a homely setting. He doesn't have to do anything to attract him.. she just has to focus on herself. Evolve finely. Leave it rest to psychology. If he ever loved her, ever at all... he'll be back.

[Paris13]

Maybe Counseling to Get Basck on Track and Some Porn to Share and Other Things To Do as One. To Reinvent One another. Other Than That, Tis have to Come from His Heart. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag... Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck. xx

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make the horse drink it. As for the heart the heart wants what the heart wants & unfortunately hearts do get broken. As for your husband I’m sorry to hear he fell out of love with you & although you can make him breakfast, you can make him lunch, you can’t make your him fall back in love with you but you certainly can try.

Give him a blowjob like you have never given someone a blowjob before & if he doesn’t love you after that maybe you two should try counseling.

[lightbulb27]

yes. just saw a message on this from church if want it, will send link.

but you can't make him, he has to want to.

[sheikalana]

It is possible but it takes some work and cooperation from his side too. Try to understand what made him fall out of love.

[DarkWinterNights]

I don’t know the situation, but’s possible. It requires both people willing to give it another go and probably couples therapy.

[Chayce]

Start throwing him the conch again. Are you guys even intercoursing?

[dutchess1998]

Yes but he doesn't want to have sex with me the last time as he likes another woman

[LadyTerpsichore]

I'm so sorry. It is possible, but not very likely- the best thing you can do now is, as the previous poster said, focus on YOU and your worth.

[dutchess1998]

I'll try thank you

[LadyTerpsichore]

Big hugs, losing love is so tough- we can give advice but I know how hard it is when you are living through it.

[dutchess1998]

It's very hard and very painful. I am hanging by a thread. But thank you for the kind words it's nice to hear comfort during hard times

[Luckycharms12]

Possibly not. Best way go back how you used to be having fun spending time together naughty weekends

[Pterodon]

Nope. It’s over I’m sorry. The truth is he never did love you

[Anonymous]

ouch. i'd move on...

[urpapi69]

Why doesn't he love you?

[lilylangley]

Not really.