If he said him left wondering if I like him or not put him off so he wouldn’t catch feelings at this point. Does it mean he sees me negatively?

[anonbrunette99]

[RealMarek]

So... he wanted to have sex with you and because you declined (and he threw you out) he would not be able to “catch feelings” it you have sex with him now?

Why are you wasting emotional energy dealing with this loser?

[anonbrunette99]

I mean I taken that as the uncertainty and doubt of the situation and sex not flowing naturally as how he would’ve liked it at the start of a relationship, made him lose interest no? I am hoping he may reconsider as I really liked him

[RealMarek]

I’m a bit more skeptical of his motives. Why would he have sex with you if he hadn’t “caught feelings” yet? If he is really into you, he would be glad to wait awhile before having sex. And if not, he’s impatient and that’s a bad sign unless you want someone who is impatient. The guy seems like bad news to me.

[anonbrunette99]

He said he doesn’t even want to be friends with me because it’s a trust thing what happens when one of us gets in a relationship he doesn’t believe in men and woman being friends. Do you think it’s a case of he never liked me for my personality and all of his interest and effort steered from wanting me sexually and when he realised he couldn’t get that he went in a rage and then lost interest because he won’t be able to have sex with me and now sees no reason to befriend me because there’s some other girl that will give him sex for the same amount of effort.

[RealMarek]

Yes. There are many such cases of men who want a woman only for sex.

[Guardian45]

It means you missed your chance. He's done. Move on. NEXT!

[anonbrunette99]

Apparently it’s because I told him I’m a virgin but i feel all he wanted was sex and because he now knows he won’t get it he’s acting as though he wouldn’t be able to have feelings for me because of the games. If he truly liked me he’d have given me another chance right? I can’t tell if he’s a nice guy who simply can’t see me the same because I got in his head, or if he just wanted one thing. I mean the “your a nice girl really” seems like bullshit because he doesn’t want me to be upset or mad at him

[Guardian45]

I think you should NOT spend anymore time on this guy.

[anonbrunette99]

I really liked him we had so much in common maybe I sound biased but I think I would be great for him and he’s making a mistake all his ex’s were users and alcoholics, he admitted it himself. Oh well he doesn’t want me but there’s someone that will

[Guardian45]

Yes, there is someone else out there.

[Guardian45]

Thank you for MHG!

[wittymilf]

He articulates his feelings really well here. I don’t think it needs anymore explanation🤷‍♀️

[anonbrunette99]

Would you say he seems like a genuine guy who’s trying to let me down gently or a guy who couldn’t get what he wanted so is trying to put me off of him

[wittymilf]

I’d say he’s a genuine guy… but he definitely wanted to have sex with you before deciding if he wanted more from the relationship

[anonbrunette99]

Do you not think he mustn’t have never truly liked me as a person if he has lost complete interest and broke it off because I wanted to wait to have sex?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he thought you weren't in to him sexually and he wants a girl who is.

[anonbrunette99]

Do you think the “you seem like a nice girl maybe if things where different” is just him trying to let me down gently without me getting all sad over it. I am into him. Maybe he will come back who knows

[Opinion Owner]

If you're into him why not get physical? I'd imagine you've been more into other dudes who you DID get physical with unlike this guy. He knows that so figures you're not into him.