Is it a red or green flag if a guy started to do things so that you will likehim back?

[Anonymous]

Will i give him a chance if he specifically said he does only those things because i like them and also said that his very uncomfortable of athletic and adventurous hobbies? Kinda sweet he try things for me but at the same time complains about it.

[SueShe]

The original green flag will definitely turn red once he has achieved what he wants and that is to get your attention and to get into your pants. Because that is what it boils up to at the end. He lowers himself to do things he would otherwise never do just to get you to like him back.

What will happen once he has achieved his goal? He will slowly start to motivate you or to persuade you that his way of seeing things are better and perhaps even try to prevent you to do what you like. The result will invariably be increased tensions and ultimately, a break up because, if you have character and personality, you will not let him have his way and he will attempt to be in your way. Definitely a red flag if you look at it on the long term basis.