Is it red flag a guy you been dating for 3-4 days ask to do freaky stuff?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

How much time have you spent together in the 3-4 days?

[Avicenna]

It is if you aren't comfortable with it

[Asker]

I wasn’t and he said I don’t love him

[Avicenna]

That's some serious gaslighting. I'd tell that fool to get lost- no one loves anyone anyway after 3-4 days, plus no one has any business trying to get a sexual partner to do something they aren't comfortable with.

[Asker]

So he isn’t the one?

[Avicenna]

No way

[Benedict234]

Yes, that's a huge red flag, waaay too soon. Stay away

[Nikki1989]

Yes, a HUGE red flag.

[Asker]

Thank you. I thought I was overreacting.

[Wise4myage]

That’s a huge red flag.

[DerekC321]

Define "freaky".