So I went out with a guy I met last night and he was very nice and very respectful and cute we decided to hangout nearby his house and I told him I’m on my period so I don’t wanna do anything sexual I’m not on my period I just said that cuz I don’t wanna do nothing like that yet but we cuddled and he obviously got excited biting his lip etc and we start making out and he goes we don’t have to have sex but can we do other stuff like a bj I told him let’s wait for next time like twice he said never mind but he insisted on that and said we can do other stuff next time etc and he was a gentleman after and was actually nice and said he likes me but I just wanna kno is this a red flag or do guys normally act like that on the first date cuz I’ve already had 3 or 4 guys act like this it always turns a bit sexual weather I like it or not should I block him or see where things go and give him a chance
Unfortunately, young people belong to the majority, and these days it has become normal.. for a relationship between you, there is no problem.. It is a need and instinct of a person that cannot be ignored.. I advise you to stay away from these practices, even bj you should not do for him until after marriage, marry him and do whatever you want and that He was sincere in his love, he will marry you or he will wait for you if you have circumstances that require waiting before marriage... If he tells you that he does not want to marry you now and after a short period of time communicate with another girl, he only wants sex with you and does not want you as his life partner. Don't be cheap to anyone
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Yeah it's a red flag. I know there are people who have sex on 1st date. But it's a red flag. Non of them should talk about having sex on 1st date at least
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More likely then not he is just looking for somthing sexual
One of the Golden Rules of dating says: Never hang out at a guys house whom you just met and don't even know.
It depends on how it is asked with me.
uhhh loud and clear dear
Absolutely a red flag. Move on.
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Obviously.
Yea red flag
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